La Tristessa Durera Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Ok Guys, Im unsure where this thread belongs best, but as the topic is ex related here is good. Plus it looks like one of the busiest rooms! So the story goes that i bought myself and my ex a ticket for a music festival upon their release about 11 months ago...we have now split. I am over this girl, and have no intention of getting back if the opportunity arised. This is not to say that we are on bad terms. She broke it off last September, and whilst I was upset, I know it was not meant to be. Our paths crossed shopping last week and we had a friendly conversation. No mention of the ticket in that convo. I consider her to be a friendly aquaintance(sp?) at least, but I have no wish to hang out with her. This is meant to be a quick read.....lol. my question= I promised at the time the ticket was hers. She still would like the ticket. Its too late for her to get another one. But the other option is to give it to a friend of mine. If I give my ex the ticket she will go with her mates, I will go with mine. Should I keep my word and give her the ticket or give it to a mate? just a quick sweep of answers please guys. thanks in advance;) Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Too bad for her. Once she broke things off then she doesn't have any claim to the ticket. It's not about being bitter, it's about simply moving on with your life. Take another girl! Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Way I see it, she broke up with you and therefore gave up all right to your time, body, and social engagements. Give the ticket to someone YOU would like to attend the show with. end of story Link to post Share on other sites
Author La Tristessa Durera Posted June 27, 2007 Author Share Posted June 27, 2007 Thanks Caliguy and Melody. I can see what you are saying and I understand it. However, Could it be construed as just being spiteful not to give her it? Then again it I suppose it would seem weak to give it to her? Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 Again, just MY advice, but why are we worrying about how things are going to be " construed ' ? SHE made the choice to not be your partner. That means she doesn't get the goodies La T D has to offer and vice versa. I'm not saying be mean or spiteful to her, sometimes things just don't work out. ..... But, it Seems to me you should be concerned with your pleasure at this event and take who YOU wish. Say you bought a boat and planned a key west fishing trip. She breaks up and moves on. Are you still obligated to bring her to the keys fishing on your boat because that was the plan nine months ago ????? That was the plan you had as a COUPLE. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Thanks Caliguy and Melody. I can see what you are saying and I understand it. However, Could it be construed as just being spiteful not to give her it? Then again it I suppose it would seem weak to give it to her? What do you care if she thinks it's being spiteful or not? She chose to walk away from you, you have no obligation to her whatsoever. Stop worrying about what SHE thinks and start worrying about YOURSELF. She's the past and history. TAKE SOMEONE ELSE TO THE SHOW! (And I mean it!) (Or you'll regret it) Link to post Share on other sites
alasia Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Personally I'd give it to her. But I see I'm in the minority here Maybe you could sell her the ticket? Link to post Share on other sites
Author La Tristessa Durera Posted June 29, 2007 Author Share Posted June 29, 2007 Both of them would have had to pay! I gave the ticket to my mate. so now theres about 7 of us lads going and its gona be a great drinking session! Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 I would have given it to a mate! Which festival is it? Link to post Share on other sites
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