ronx7 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 I am in a new relationship. It's just been over a week. At the moment everything is so good but I have some concerns. We have a major age gap-I'm 31 and she's 20. I usually date women around the ages of 26-30, so this is a big change. I didn't persue her, this what happened-I stopped at this gas station to get a six pack. She's a assistant manager there and I thought it was so endearing how this tiny lady was tending the business. She gave the orders to the coworkers and they instanly went to it, and then she handled this rude custumer with amazing grace. To me that was all so sexy. I wanted to see if I could shake her up a bit by asking for her number. I get up to pay and she asks why I look so happy. She rings my bear and I ask for her number and for a moment she didn't know what to think but then she said well you won't call me then I was shook up. I didn't think she would even consider it. I said sure I would, so she gave it me only after I promised to call her. I called we had a cute talk and we met up at the mall and everybody was giving me the evil eye because she looks younger than she actually is. She said she wanted to ge to get know me but all we did was make out. Though the next day we talked for about three hours about everything, but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I thought that in a day or so she would say that she didn't have time or something like that. Well a couple days later she surprised me by coming down to where I work at lunch, led to me to her car and she had this lunch made out for me, and she told me that she wanted to be in a relationship with me, after that how could I refuse. We went out again and this time it was great! I went to see her and one of her old bf was there and after I gave her a hug and kiss he followed me out to my truck and kept telling me that I was going to ruin her for him, how he and her was supposed to be together. and I told him that I'm with her now and just move on but he kept insisting that I not see her and told him that it wasn't his business and then grabbed me by the shirt so I biffed him in the face. we talked about it and she said that she was so sorry for my troubles. so thats the gist of my new relationship my concerns are in this order: 1.How do I handle a jealous bf situation? 2.I'm nervous about how anyone I know will judge me since she looks young, how do I handle that? 3. Can a relationship like this really last? 4. How can I kiss her or even hold her without feeling like I'm violatiing her? thank you so much ronney Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 What are the odds she had you show up at a place where her ex bf was so she could make him jealous ?? If this is the case. Get out now... Link to post Share on other sites
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