RubyDeluxe Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Ok, everyone I have an update to my story but for some strange reason my original thread has been closed. Anyway, I was able to cover up my little situation at the club and beat afterwards successfully and my fiancée doesn’t know boo about my little encounter. However, just my luck, the blood tests the hospital ran came back showing me to have genital herpes and I don’t know what to do. My finacee thinks I’m a virgin and I know he won’t want to use condoms once we are married. What do I do? my original story can be found at http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t122671/ for any of you who care for the backdrop Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Doesn't like you have a choice but to tell him. Unless you want him to find out by turning up with symptoms one day. Exercise and get enough sleep to keep your immune system up, when your immunity is down, break-outs happen. Stress contributes, also, but exercise and sleep minimizes stress. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 How go you have genital herpes when you say the guy put it in your butt? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 28, 2007 Author Share Posted June 28, 2007 How go you have genital herpes when you say the guy put it in your butt? the bjs possibly? I'm not sure as I am new to all of this. This is only my 6th sexual encounter Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 28, 2007 Author Share Posted June 28, 2007 Doesn't like you have a choice but to tell him. Unless you want him to find out by turning up with symptoms one day. Exercise and get enough sleep to keep your immune system up, when your immunity is down, break-outs happen. Stress contributes, also, but exercise and sleep minimizes stress. Is there any way to cure this quickly? Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Is there any way to cure this quickly? There is no actual cure for this. Break-outs can be controlled with medication and/or a healthy lifestyle, but the virus is always going to be there. Even without break-outs, it can be transmitted. Even with condoms, it can be transmitted (although it minimzes the risk). I feel like I'm the narrator for the Valtrex commercial right now...I am a nursing student though...remember what I said about exercise and sleep...if your immunity is low, this can make a break-out occur. You should really talk more about this to an OBGYN, or some Dr....to decide if medication would suit you or not. Some people break-out frequently, others might only break-out once in their lifetime. Some break-outs are not noticeable-- others are painful. And again -- anytime you are extra stressed, or sick, or not taking vitamins -- your immune system is not working to it's full ability. So don't be surprised if you get break-outs then. This includes while menustrating. I shouldn't be giving out medical advice here, you should still talk to your Doctor...but that's about all the facts I can think of to give you. If you tell your BF, it might help to let know just how common this is...I once heard 1 out of 3 people have some form of herpes -- cold sores on the mouth count. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 28, 2007 Author Share Posted June 28, 2007 There is no actual cure for this. Break-outs can be controlled with medication and/or a healthy lifestyle, but the virus is always going to be there. Even without break-outs, it can be transmitted. Even with condoms, it can be transmitted (although it minimzes the risk). I feel like I'm the narrator for the Valtrex commercial right now...I am a nursing student though...remember what I said about exercise and sleep...if your immunity is low, this can make a break-out occur. You should really talk more about this to an OBGYN, or some Dr....to decide if medication would suit you or not. Some people break-out frequently, others might only break-out once in their lifetime. Some break-outs are not noticeable-- others are painful. And again -- anytime you are extra stressed, or sick, or not taking vitamins -- your immune system is not working to it's full ability. So don't be surprised if you get break-outs then. This includes while menustrating. I shouldn't be giving out medical advice here, you should still talk to your Doctor...but that's about all the facts I can think of to give you. If you tell your BF, it might help to let know just how common this is...I once heard 1 out of 3 people have some form of herpes -- cold sores on the mouth count. Thanks sweetie, I didn't know all this. I have the cold sores around my lips that look like over sized oval pimples. They are not ON my lips so do you think I can cover em up with extra make-up so that my BF does not notice? Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 You can try make-up, and he may not notice, but if you kiss him, he will notice if a sore appears on his mouth a few days later. He might blow it off as just a "cold sore", but if its reoccuring he'll question it. If he gets genital symptoms though, he'll probably question that ASAP. If you perform oral on him, the sores on your mouth can pass the virus to his genitals. So yea you can use make-up but that's only a temporary cover-up. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 Herpes? Zovirax is your friend. So, you are going to lie about having a contagious, uncurable, lifelong veneral disease, as well as lying about the fact that you are a man and on top of that having homosexual encounters behind his back? And on top of that, I saw on another thread that you have a keylogger on your fiance's computer to make sure that HE isn't lying and hiding something? Unbelievable. Truly. If this is a true tale, then... I honestly hope your 'fiance' will have someone who will tell him the truth about you before it is too late. As for you, I hope that one day you can find someone who will bring you happiness without having to hide what you are: inside and out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 29, 2007 Author Share Posted June 29, 2007 what's wrong with having a keyboard logger on his computer? I just want to make sure he isn't lying to me about anything. C'mon sister, you know how men are these days don't you? Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 Obviously, LB's point is that you are the one who is less deserving of trust in your relationship, RD, based simply on your track record so far of lying and deceit. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 29, 2007 Author Share Posted June 29, 2007 Technically, I am not “lying” to him. I’m simply omitting details pertaining to my past that I don’t feel are necessary for him to know about. Additionally, how can it be a lie if he’s never asked what my gender at birth was? He has assumed I’m a woman and in my opinion he has assumed correctly. Also, the incident at the club has not been discussed since he has no knowledge of it. Let me ask this, do you give every detail of your entire past to your significant other? I would hardly accuse you of lying if you told me you didn’t. Your privacy is your privacy and I for one respect that. Link to post Share on other sites
Lostgurl Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 Technically, I am not “lying” to him. I’m simply omitting details pertaining to my past that I don’t feel are necessary for him to know about. Additionally, how can it be a lie if he’s never asked what my gender at birth was? He has assumed I’m a woman and in my opinion he has assumed correctly. Also, the incident at the club has not been discussed since he has no knowledge of it. Let me ask this, do you give every detail of your entire past to your significant other? I would hardly accuse you of lying if you told me you didn’t. Your privacy is your privacy and I for one respect that. Technically your not lying to him? hmmmmm let me see here.... You are a man, but you are going to trick an honest person into marrying a male. Biggest lie ever told! You cheated, with a male no less. Second and third biggest lie EVER. You now have an INCURABLE diesease, yet you are going to marry this minister? In hopes that he'll never discover that you were born a man, also in hopes that you can hide this incurable disease from him for the rest of your lives? I really don't think that one can harm another person anymore than this. There is nothing more decieving IMO. Yeah Honey, You are innocent. Not a liar at all! Either come clean about everything, you being a male, your cheating, and the disease you've contracted from it. Or leave the poor man so he can go and find himself a decent woman that won't decieve him everyway possible. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 Technically, I am not “lying” to him. I’m simply omitting details pertaining to my past that I don’t feel are necessary for him to know about. Additionally, how can it be a lie if he’s never asked what my gender at birth was? He has assumed I’m a woman and in my opinion he has assumed correctly. Also, the incident at the club has not been discussed since he has no knowledge of it. Let me ask this, do you give every detail of your entire past to your significant other? I would hardly accuse you of lying if you told me you didn’t. Your privacy is your privacy and I for one respect that. :lmao::lmao::lmao: OMG. Respecting privacy? Girl, please. Tell it to the keylogger. This cannot be for real but I for one hope you never go away, RD. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 29, 2007 Author Share Posted June 29, 2007 :lmao::lmao::lmao: OMG. Respecting privacy? Girl, please. Tell it to the keylogger. This cannot be for real but I for one hope you never go away, RD. Why can't this be for real? I don't understand. I put a keyboard logger on his machine as per advice one of my friends gave me. I have to protect myself, don't you agree? Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 This cannot be for real but I for one hope you never go away, RD. Me too, times two! Link to post Share on other sites
ruby_gloom Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 yes. i completely agree with muse and star. please don't go away. oh, and this bit cracked me up: Respecting privacy? Girl, please. Tell it to the keylogger. haha. Link to post Share on other sites
Storyrider Posted June 29, 2007 Share Posted June 29, 2007 Is RubyDeluxe really a man in more ways than one? Is this someone we know, maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted June 30, 2007 Author Share Posted June 30, 2007 No, I don't think I know any of you. Repent of your sins and we can become friends in the Lord Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 I didn't buy your first story...and this one... wow... no way... I can't wait for 'part III'... really, don't stop posting, this is entertaining.. Do you really believe we're that 'stupid'? Your stories don't make sense... sorry but I don't believe any of this for one second. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 No, I don't think I know any of you. Repent of your sins and we can become friends in the Lord I'm repenting of my sins..I know I will Burn in hell...Burning, I miss you. I mean yes, I'll miss burning in hell, if I repent. (Why does Deluxe remind me of burning?) Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Is RubyDeluxe really a man in more ways than one? Is this someone we know, maybe? I suspect this may be true, and I'd say he'd burn in hell, if I believed in such a place. Ha, funny, Touche just made the same joke. Great minds, and whatnot. But I'd like to point out that I called it on RD's first thread! So there. Although I should have been more specific. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 I suspect this may be true, and I'd say he'd burn in hell, if I believed in such a place. Ha, funny, Touche just made the same joke. Great minds, and whatnot. But I'd like to point out that I called it on RD's first thread! So there. Although I should have been more specific. You did? Can you post the link? I missed it. Link to post Share on other sites
serial muse Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 You did? Can you post the link? I missed it. Soitenly. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=122671&page=2 Halfway down... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 Soitenly. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=122671&page=2 Halfway down... Well, thanks SM. I see where you question his authenticity but I don't see where you call him on being the particular poster I was referring to. That's who I think it is. Anyway, Deluxe. I'm sorry to go off-topic like this. Your issues are real and should be properly addressed. And don't worry, I will still love you no matter what. I always knew you wanted to get rid of the last of your balls. Tell Daddy, he did a great job on finishing off the job. And thank your Mommy too. But remember, I still love you. Kisses, Touche' Link to post Share on other sites
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