Touche Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 but, RubyDeluxe, you are somehow really talented He is isn't he? I love him. He's so damn sinful and outrageous that I can't help but to love his/her sinful ass. And I will surely repent (and be punished) for that. Link to post Share on other sites
lonelybird Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 He is isn't he? I love him. He's so damn sinful and outrageous that I can't help but to love his/her sinful ass. And I will surely repent (and be punished) for that. Amen! ....................... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Amen! ....................... Lonelybird, we're going straight to hell according to Deluxe, don't you know? Link to post Share on other sites
lonelybird Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Lonelybird, we're going straight to hell according to Deluxe, don't you know? An adulteror will go if without heartly repent. I think that not according to Deluxe, but it is according to Bible. Everyone has chance to be exposed to words of God, and you choose or not decide your destiny. You certainly are not the one who don't know, cause your husband is a righteous man who believes in God. Link to post Share on other sites
lonelybird Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Confidence is NOT built up on how much attention we can get from men, how can we win over other women. Confidence doesn't come from our apprearance or beauty, confidence doesn't come when OW steal others' husband. Confidence come from within, come from believing in God's words. The more you are confident in God's words, the more you become confident Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 I don't say you are a hypocrite for pointing out that my past mistakes are wrong I say you are a hypocrite b/c you judge me and refuse to give sound advice. My story is real and you people ridicule me and expect me not to respond? I gave you sound advice, I told you to come clean with your fiancee. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted July 3, 2007 Author Share Posted July 3, 2007 I gave you sound advice, I told you to come clean with your fiancee. But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. Isn't there another way? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. Isn't there another way? You're going to lose all of that anyway when he founds out. But if you tell him, maybe he won't lose complete respect for you. By the way, you sound like you don't even really love him for himself but only for what kind of life he can provide you with. You should repent and beg god for his forgiveness. Isn't greed a sin? Link to post Share on other sites
halfarock Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 ... First a 19 year old who anally rapes his virgin girl friend on her 15th birthday while she is sick and throwing up and now a religious transexual. What's next? Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. If you really wanted a nice life as a Pastor's wife, you wouldn't be out partying and hooking up with men. Ya, you'll lose him more than likely, but thats a chance you are going to have to take. I don't think you love him, you love what he can provide. Isn't there another way? No, you'll have to tell him. Or do you you think he won't notice on the honeymoon that you have a wee willie winkie staring back at him? Link to post Share on other sites
lonelybird Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. Isn't there another way? Godly woman's wealth is in heaven, not on earth, not car, house...etc:o Make peace with God is the most important thing, you know that! You already repented to God, so that means you will NOT do the sinful deed again, no lying either Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. Isn't there another way? No, you'll have to tell him. Or do you you think he won't notice on the honeymoon that you have a wee willie winkie staring back at him? Ruby - there are only two ways: be honest with him before the wedding, or he finds out after the wedding. Unless you have some special "other option", these are your only two paths. Assuming you continue on your current course, and you do not tell him before the wedding, how do you think it will play out? That's not a rhetorical question; I am asking you for your expectation of how things will go after the wedding. Please consider the realistic possibilities and give an answer. Also, separate from your very earthly fear of losing the life that you covet (an interesting choice of words, don't you think?) how do you think your god would look upon your wedding, over which hangs such a fundamental secret held by you and remaining unrevealed to your betrothed? I'm not claiming that I know - here again, I'm asking if you've considered this. Link to post Share on other sites
insanelyjelous Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 Hi Ruby I'm not here to attack you and I don't believe others on this forum are attacking you either from what i've read! They are simply telling you how it is, you say you are a christian well then prove it, tell the truth. I used to go to church as a child and as I grew up I started to see people for what they really were. My dad as I have said in a post on another thread cheated on my mother most of the time they were married and I have at least 18 half siblings to show for it, but then he would go to church on a sunday and repent his sins. Did that make it ok, hell no, I think it is so morally wrong to think that you can continue to do something that you know is a sin but then think if you repent on a daily basis it's ok. As it stands I am not a follower of any faith because of the way people twist religion to suit there own purpose's, I try to live my life as morally correct as I can and I hope that if there is a god that he understands. What your doing is wrong on so many levels but it's your life and you will live it as you see fit but I really hope that if your man doesn't yet know the truth he finds out because people like yourself (who lie and cheat) are the reason why I have no trust in people in general. Do you not think that he deserves to know the truth that maybe he will decide that he loves you enough to stay with you regardless. why don't you stop thinking of yourself and what he can do for you and think about how heartbreakingly hurt he will feel if he finds out that you spent how many years decieving him, if you truly love him you would never want to hurt him. And the fact that you could possibly give him an STI on top of that should lead you to wanting to do the right thing. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 You have already been mislead by Satan Ruby, You need to pray to me that I don't read your other posts and have to bring on my wrath to straighten you out. You hearing me? lucky the end of days is near:( Damn! You won't get to spend as much time as a woman as you did as a man! Your blasphemous posts and your willful diversion of the original topic here will not go unnoticed by the Lord. Do any of you realize that loveshack was the only good Samaritan on this entire thread? The rest of you either attacked me and the Lord or just spoke about completely irrelevant things on a serious thread. Some of you should be ashamed of yourselves. See above for Gods response. Wait, didn't God already give you what-for a few pages back? As for my employer - he thinks you're funny too. And since when is it an insult to say someone's entertaining?? I just hope that man of yours appreciates you. Ruby, you had "troll" explained to you in the first thread, so don't pull that one again. A little consistency would help your case. esp when describing your sexual encounters, they are erratic at best! When you get married, doesn't your birth certificate have to be shown or something? So won't pastor boy find out then? What did they do with your Adams Apple? If you are in such great physical shape, won't your biceps give you away? You really are summin else RubyD. :p:p I am going to a transexual bar next saturday.... please say you'll be there. I would LOVE to have this convo in person.. although I am taken so you will have to behave. xxxxxxx Link to post Share on other sites
insanelyjelous Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 But if I do that I'll lose him, the house, the cars and the nice life I'll have as a Pastor's wife. Isn't there another way? Sorry I missed this the first read round. How selfish of you !!! Isn't love supposed to be unconditional, does that mean that if he decided to live the life of a poor man and discard all of his worldly possessions e.g the big house you wouldn't want to be with him because that's what it sounds like. I love my fiance and even if he had nothing I wouldn't care because it's not about what he can do for me. Anything he can do for me I can do for myself and i'm proud to say that. You keep saying that no one wants to give you advice which is simply not true, I have read countless posts of people telling you exactly what to do. What you should say is that the advice that is being given is not what you want to hear. It doesn't advocate the life (lie) that you want to continue to lead. You really shouldn't ask for advice if, when you get it you don't like it and then accuse all the people who were only trying to help in the beginning of attacking you. Please do not bring god into it with me, I will take offence because it is obvious that you use god as some kind of shield. Do you not think that by asking god for forgiveness everday but then continuing to do that very thing again and again is not in essence just mocking god. If you ask to be forgiven for something does that not mean that you acknowledge it is wrong and that you will try and not do it again? Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted July 5, 2007 Author Share Posted July 5, 2007 Some of you people are very mean to me and I think it's stems from jealousy. Jealous of the fact that God loves me, I have a man who loves me and that man is very well off and will give me everything I want. Instead of being mean and hurtful you should be praising the lord and one day your blessings will come Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 Some of you people are very mean to me and I think it's stems from jealousy. Jealous of the fact that God loves me, I have a man who loves me and that man is very well off and will give me everything I want. Instead of being mean and hurtful you should be praising the lord and one day your blessings will come Crap, you're right. I'm jealous. God loves you more than he loves me. The man who loves you, loves you more than the man who loves me. Your man thinks he loves a woman but he really loves a man with a dick. One who pretends to be a woman. Yes, I'm very jealous. Your man is going to drop you like a hot potato when he finds out that you've deceived him. You need to bow down and BEG god for your forgiveness. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 Some of you people are very mean to me and I think it's stems from jealousy. Jealous of the fact that God loves me, I have a man who loves me and that man is very well off and will give me everything I want. Instead of being mean and hurtful you should be praising the lord and one day your blessings will come i don't care if god loves you, god isn't real so... I have a man who loves me too.. AND my own boobs. My man knows me and loves me for who i am, we have no secrets. I have all the blessings I need right now, and life is good! Link to post Share on other sites
insanelyjelous Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 Some of you people are very mean to me and I think it's stems from jealousy. Jealous of the fact that God loves me, I have a man who loves me and that man is very well off and will give me everything I want. Instead of being mean and hurtful you should be praising the lord and one day your blessings will come OK obviously you keep missing the point. You say you have a man who loves you but he doesn't because he doesn't truely know you! so therefore it is not actually possible for him to love you. And my next question is do you love him? I have no reason to be envious of you, I have everything I will ever need in my life, my kids and a wonderful fiance who knows that I can be insecure and jelous but accepts me for me. Can you say the same? Yes you have a wonderful man who your decieving to no end, ever heard the saying that you reap what you sow. I never questioned whether or not god loves you because as far as I know he loves everyone sinner or not, but my statement was that you are making a mockery of him. I'm sorry to all LS ers but I really feel the need to do this! RD this is for you. Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain The person who does not accept seriously the majesty of divinity, or who confesses lightly his belief and uses the name of the Lord carelessly and not with reverence and fear, uses the name of God in vain People in high position in society who pretend they are Christians but ignore God's commandments in their business transactions or in their homes among relatives and friends use the name of the Lord in vain. The hypocrite uses the name of the Lord in vain because he is dressing his evil thoughts with the mantle of God's name. The Pharisee of the parable, for instance, used the name of God with a loud voice and raised his hands and eyes, but in vain. His intent was to gain arrogant personal satisfaction rather than to present a devoted prayer in repentance and humbleness. I am not being mean, I am merely stating the facts, since you choose to keep using god as a weapon. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 Ruby - regardless of whether some posters are being mean to you, you are not addressing the question of your deceit with your fiancee. Please address the serious questions I asked in this post. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 I too would like to know the answers to those questions. I honestly don't think there can be any possible way of keeping the pastor in the dark forever... Link to post Share on other sites
Author RubyDeluxe Posted July 8, 2007 Author Share Posted July 8, 2007 Ruby - regardless of whether some posters are being mean to you, you are not addressing the question of your deceit with your fiancee. Please address the serious questions I asked in this post. Perhaps you have not taken the time to read my story. I plainly said my operation is scheduled for a date prior to the wedding date. So, I think things will proceed just fine on my wedding night. Why must sinners have such a hard time understanding the obvious? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Why must sinners have such a hard time understanding the obvious? Perhaps you should ask yourself that. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted July 8, 2007 Share Posted July 8, 2007 Perhaps you have not taken the time to read my story. I plainly said my operation is scheduled for a date prior to the wedding date. So, I think things will proceed just fine on my wedding night. Why must sinners have such a hard time understanding the obvious? Yeah, we're funny that way. I'm afraid I don't have any advice on how to keep your new husband, who we can reasonably believe is expecting to marry a virgin female-from-birth - but who will have actually married a 6-month post-operative transgender MTF who has been sexually active since your engagement - from discovering your case of genital herpes. Other than that, it sounds like you are confident you've got all the other required deceptions under control. what's wrong with having a keyboard logger on his computer? I just want to make sure he isn't lying to me about anything. Yeah, you wouldn't want your future spouse to be withholding anything substantial - anything you might feel entitled to know about before marrying - would you? Good luck there, Ruby. Link to post Share on other sites
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