VanFX Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 Hey everybody, Why does it seem so hard to find an attractive and intelligent woman in her mid twenties? I know there are a lot of them but I can't seem to find one in my area. I think I have a lot of the qualities that most women want in a guy but never seem to meet any. I don't know what to do really. My female friends tell me that it's possible that the girls think I'm too good to be true or are intimidated by me and may be afraid I will lose interest in them and move on. In reality, I'm not one of those guys. In the simplest terms, I'm just looking for a woman to spend time with who is looking for a serious long-term relationship that I have a lot of qualities in common with... I would like to know, am I asking too much? Link to post Share on other sites
0217174 Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 I hear ya. It's just one of those things. It's like how if you go to a family gathering, you notice all the <16 under kids are there, and the >30 people, but everyone in between seems to be MIA. They're just out. Their with friends. Who knows. I think it's kind of misleading when you go online and see a million hot 20-something girls all in one place, so you think that's how it is in reality too. But it's not. Really, there's one here, one there, kind of blended in with everyone else. I think the problem isn't that there's not a lot of them, the prob is that there really isn't a place where they're concentrated on a daily basis. Most graduated college, so they're just at work, home, out with their friends. It's not like teens or adults who you can always find at the same spot, same time, everyday.. like clockwork. They're just random. One day here, the next there. It totally sucks. Even here, I live in LA, you'd think you'd see them running all over the place, but you don't. If I do, it's for 5 seconds as she's getting into her car, on the cellphone, then drives off. Bye bye hottie! See you .. uhh never. Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 Question is.... How old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
ddnnee Posted July 2, 2007 Share Posted July 2, 2007 I hear ya. It's just one of those things. It's like how if you go to a family gathering, you notice all the <16 under kids are there, and the >30 people, but everyone in between seems to be MIA. i know exactly what you mean! it IS strange that you never see that age group. turns out they do meet up but all end up leaving together in a pack to go clubbing. Link to post Share on other sites
JeanQueen Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 Hey everybody, Why does it seem so hard to find an attractive and intelligent woman in her mid twenties? The same could be said for men. Where are they? Not in my city, that's for sure. Most of them are college guys who like to drink a lot and screw around even more. The rest are either in a relationship, gay, or really unfortunate looking. There are literally no single, healthy, honest, decent looking 22-29 year olds in my city of 86,000 people. What happened? Link to post Share on other sites
Author VanFX Posted July 3, 2007 Author Share Posted July 3, 2007 Question is.... How old are you? I'm 24 years old. I know what you guys are saying... Most of the girls I would like to talk to, I either see them when I'm sitting at a traffic light or in some other situation where they're on the go, lol. It's like I need to flag them down in the car to talk to any of them, lol. Of course then they would think I'm nuts... Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 As JeanQueen said, women have the same problem. At least I think so. The guy who is single isn't around. Its the guy who is taken or gay who is around and thats no fun.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author VanFX Posted July 3, 2007 Author Share Posted July 3, 2007 As JeanQueen said, women have the same problem. At least I think so. The guy who is single isn't around. Its the guy who is taken or gay who is around and thats no fun.... Yeah, I know... I guess there is nothing we can do about it... Link to post Share on other sites
Strangemagik Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 I'm 24 years old. I know what you guys are saying... Most of the girls I would like to talk to, I either see them when I'm sitting at a traffic light or in some other situation where they're on the go, lol. It's like I need to flag them down in the car to talk to any of them, lol. Of course then they would think I'm nuts... I'd say based on this statement that your judgement on what is attractive might be whats causing your trouble. YOu see these girls and think wow I'd love to be with them but you don't even know them. Go where the intelligent girls hang out and watch for some in your "range" they are out there. Probably just not where you are. I think you might try to put less "chosiness" on the attractive nature and fall for a womans natrual attractiveness and it might be easier to find one with both those qualities. Besides its said the longer we look at somone the more attractive they become so who knows you just might find someone you might have passed by 2 weeks ago that you did have a chance of getting to know or bonding with. KWIM. Please don't take a offense to this I'm trying to help and not trying to judge you but based on your reply thats what I saw. Link to post Share on other sites
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