Ahem...girl troubles?

[Da Vinchi]

So I'm about to post a research paper asking about one billion different questions in one post...cool?

Cool.

 

At my job, there's a bunch of girls that I'm not sure if they are interested or if it's just normal stuff.

 

So for girl number one, she is about a foot taller than me (I'm generally not into girls taller than me but whatever). I think she's really beautiful. My junior year I used to see her a lot in the halls and we'd stare at each other for a second or two then keep going. The following year of school, I was in the same class with her and we didn't talk much. She was leader of something and so she basically assigned stuff for me to do. Sometimes she would come close to me to a point where we are basically touching each other and when she would give me something to do, she would like stroke my hair. We also played footsies in class. Now that we are on the summer holidays, we both work at the same building and I sometimes buy mochas from her when I'm on break. When I try to make eye contact with her, she looks away. I don't know if it's because of what happened in HS (with the footsies and all that. It was kinda weird) but if we are making small talk or something, she doesn't look away. I tried to not start a conversation with her to see if she is ignoring me but she's always like "Hey what's up?" and I'd be like "Oh nothing, just work and life" and she'd be like "Cool. So how was your week?" or something like that. It's probably nothing, but could I be wrong?

 

Girl number two: I think she might like me but I don't know. She also works at the same coffee place that girl number one works. She's kinda goofy but she's nice and pretty. She also has a very nice..erm...anyway so when I went over there to get a beverage, she gave me a free drink because she messed up. First I was like "ok that's normal; she messed up and she gave me a free drink cause...I'm awesome"...not really. Then she did it again, and again. And I was like "cool. free drinks." Every time I go over there she would try to be funny, but it wouldn't really be funny you know, but I would still laugh cause I hate making people feel awkward. Then one day I went over there and I told her something cool and I was like "This stays between us, don't tell anyone" and she was like "Thanks. Wow, you are my only real friend here" I don't want to over read things you know, but I'm getting a gut feeling. But I don't know. There hasn't really been anything to let me know that she's interested you know?

 

Girl number three also works with me. She used to be in one of my classes and I never knew it until when she started working with me. When I saw her I didn't talk to her because I generally don't talk to new people unless I have something to talk about. I think I didn't talk to her for maybe two weeks of work. During those two weeks, we made eye contact literally every two minutes. It's like I couldn't stop starring at her even when I didn't want to, and I would always stare at her when she was staring at me; straight into her eyes. It was like that for about a week. All this staring had built up some sort of tension so I didn't even have the nerve to say something to her. When I finally did, I asked her it she went to my school and she was like "Duh! I'm in one of your classes. I sit to your right" and I felt dumb. I figured I just ruined my chance right there so I stopped talking for a bit. Then we started making small talk and then we started talking a lot. I asked her for her phone number and she gave me, then she asked for mine. She texted me the next morning at around eight-nine ish and we texted the whole day. I had invited her over to my house cause I was having a party but she had taken a week off work and was out of state. She's really funny and she cracks me up. Sometimes I feel boring when I'm around her cause she has all these cool stories to tell. I like her but I don't know if she likes me. Any advice?

 

The next girl doesn't work with me. Unlike the girls above though, we've been close. I met her at a friend's party and she looked new to the place so I figured I'd get to know her. We talked a lot and she was great. Then the next time I saw her we started talking about random things and then she started telling me these personal things about her and she asked me if I had a gf and I said no. Then when we were taking pictures, she hugged me really hard and I did too, then we took some pictures then I left. Then we started hanging out a lot whenever we met at parties. Then one day at a party, she got upset because I didn't say hi to her or something like that. I was kinda pissed so I started talking to my friends. Then when I got home, she wrote me an email saying that I should choose a gf from among my friends and I was like what the hell? Then school came around so no more parties and no more hanging out. She hooked up with one of my friends and they started dating. Then they started having problems so she started telling me about it. From there we started talking again and she said that she's so unhappy she was basically thinking about cheating on her bf. I could be wrong, but judging from the type of conversations we are having, I'm almost positive that she wants to cheat on him with me...and I do like her. This summer, I've seen her around and we don't talk as much because her bf is always around and he's my friend. We had a party weeks ago and she was dancing all by herself. So I went up to her and I started dancing with her. I asked her why she wasn't dancing with her bf and she said it was because he didn't want to. So we danced together. It started off as just dancing, with a decent amount of space between us. By the end of the party we had done just about everything from dirty dancing to slows. I enjoyed it and I believe she did too (She's a really good dancer by the way). Anyways, I think we are falling for each other but I don't know. She keeps saying that she still loves her bf. He doesn't like her though. He's one of those player types that are all talk. He says I don't have "game" because I'm actually nice to girls. It's difficult for me because I know he's just playing her (he practically told me that) but she thinks he likes her. I don't want to tell her that he's playing her so they break up; I hate doing stuff like that. I want her to figure it out herself. She's given me signs but I act oblivious because of her bf and all that. What should I do?

 

Sorry for the research-paper post, but I had a lot on my mind lately