input would be very ful!!!

[CJ77]

ok i promise this is the last time ill be posting about this particular situation for those of you that have been following my threads...i promise!!!!!!!! lol

 

so a quick sum up

my ex was feeling the breakup vibe from me for awhile bc he never had time for me etc etc.....i loved him to death but where do u draw the line....so he ended breaking things off with me...i still cant believe it though bc he always said he didnt want to break up and here he did it

 

when i asked why he said "heres the thing, i still like you and i still want us to go out and do things but to be your boyfriend i cant right now, you even said last night you feel like you dont have a boyfriend. I really want us to be friends and i feel this is the best coarse of action for us to break up, so also i dont ruin any future chance of us getting back together. The timing is just bad because i dont have the time. actually im not even going to ask for a second chance but i hope there is a glimmer of hope for me to have a second chance in the future. its just not working out. i meant everything i said and that the best coarse of action is to be friends."

 

so heres my thing

 

he doesnt ever ask me to go out and do anything

 

he doesnt call me, but not that he really called me when we dated..he does IM me though, not everytime im on but 90% of the time

 

when he sees me at work he always says hi, or bye,or stares at me

 

so last night he instant messaged me......since i never thought his reason to break up made sense i never had closure and i was feeling very pissy and just wanted to let him have it but i decided not to since its been a month since the split..why bother now

 

so instead i said so how is everything w/ you

 

he goes "pretty good....."

 

i go well thats good

 

i felt ticked that hes doin pretty good as for me not a day goes by that i dont miss him

 

so i asked him if he found a new girl to replace me

 

he said no

 

he then goes "and did you find a better and hotter boyfriend"

 

me and my sarcastic self goes "yeah..............lol jk.... u see it got no better than you but im sure eventually i will find someone new who will match up to the new standard u set for me"

 

and then he had the nerve to write "lol....ya its going to pretty hard i bet, but hey i g2g ill ttyl"

 

 

so that whole convo left me even more aggervated...its like what the hell...he claimed to care about me so much and now its like he doesnt even care...i still and will never get how u go from saying " i love you so much" to acting like this

 

 

any input will be helpful!!!!!

[chryssy83]

I haven't read your other threads, but based on this one I'd say you should just move on. If for some reason he comes back into your life as a potential romantic partner, so be it. But right now he's got you on the back burner. You deserve better.

 

You can definitely find someone else as good or better...don't hang on to the past, start meeting new people.