princess75 Posted July 5, 2007 Share Posted July 5, 2007 After reading many of the posts...I had a brilliant realization....IT IS iN THE END NOT THAT COMPLICATED! I have posted many times in loveshack and have felt so good of getting so many good advices, but it has all clicked to me now.....and I will keep on posting, but I want to post this while my optimism and simplicity for life is high! Just as us here we post to get second chances...so those second chances could exist as long as the other person, the other party is willing to have one. The point is, it is not that complicated, just ask. And if they say no...then we have our answers...we move on...and find new people and if that first special one decides to come back....and we are still there, or after having different experiences there still is love...then HURRAY! Keep on living in the PRESENT with or without that other half. Sometimes it is just about growth, about having to do other things in life or getting to know certain aspects of ourselves in life....and coming back...but sometimes...someone more suitable for US is waiting beyong the fog we currently experience now. And yes we do become happier when we meet that special someone...and the current one seems as if it was not meant to be...with fond memories ...as just that...memories... Well, food for thought...if you feel it is possible, make your way...probabilities are they may want it as much as you do..if they say no...then set them free...if they come back (and you are still there) then they are yours...otherwise NOT MEANT TO BE. Sigh......Good luck to EVERYONE! Love is a gift you give yourself! Link to post Share on other sites
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