If you think your husband won't cheat when he's out with the boys, think again....

[I love hot men.]

A friend of mine works as a waitress at a golf resort, and gets hit on all the time by rich married men. She has been propositioned straight-up a LOT. Just sayin'.

[Krytellan]

A friend of mine works as a waitress at a golf resort, and gets hit on all the time by rich married men. She has been propositioned straight-up a LOT. Just sayin'.

 

OMG!!! That means all men are cheating. Quick, every committed woman in the world dump him!!! It happens at this one posh golf course, so it must be everyone!!!

 

... cuz a friend of a friend told me so...

[I love hot men.]

OMG!!! That means all men are cheating. Quick, every committed woman in the world dump him!!! It happens at this one posh golf course, so it must be everyone!!!

 

That's odd. I don't recall saying ALL men cheat. I'm just saying that my friend is hit on and propositioned a LOT by married men. If it happens to her a lot, it happens elsewhere a lot, also.

While visiting her, I was also hit on by a local guy there who has a live-in girlfriend of 2 years and she has 3 kids. This is in Oregon, btw.

[I love hot men.]

... cuz a friend of a friend told me so...

She does get hit on all the time...and propositioned. She is very attractive, though. My point is that the men you least expect will cheat.

I just find it interesting because a lot of these men come in groups, and it's just men, and stay for days to golf. I was just visiting there and actually saw it first hand. So many men out there couldn't give a rat's about their wedding vows when they know they won't get caught.

You are a very naive man, my friend. My sister owns another restaurant in the area and gets hit on all the time as well, and she always wears her wedding ring.

If it happens at the golf resort, and happens at my sister's restaurant....well....it happens other places....MANY other places.

[Curmudgeon]

If you think your husband won't cheat when he's out with the boys, think again....

 

...lump all husbands into the same group? I think you're delusional.

 

Faithful husbands of the world unite. No going out with the boys, ever. It'll make you cheat.

 

There! That should take care of the problem!

 

Anyone up for knitting and needlepoint?

[Lizzie60]

A friend of mine works as a waitress at a golf resort, and gets hit on all the time by rich married men. She has been propositioned straight-up a LOT. Just sayin'.

 

It happens when the H is out with the boys... It happens when the H is away for work assignement or on a course... It happens when the H has a job that allows him to visit clients, in other words allows him to be on the road (such as financial advisor, sales rep., etc.)....It happens when the H is at work from 9 to 5... It happens all the time... everywhere...

 

IMO over 95% of men cheat... and most if not all will if they have the opportunity and they know they'll NEVER get caught.

[I love hot men.]

...lump all husbands into the same group? I think you're delusional.

 

Faithful husbands of the world unite. No going out with the boys, ever. It'll make you cheat.

 

There! That should take care of the problem!

 

Anyone up for knitting and needlepoint?

 

Hey, chill. My friend gets hit on daily by married men. I'm just sayin'. No need to take offense. I'm not saying not to go out with the boys, etc. I'm just saying....the men you least expect will cheat, and actually, actually PURSUE cheating. Do you think these men's wives at home suspect? Usually not.

[Curmudgeon]

What you said was that any of us who go out with the boys will cheat.

 

If that's been your experience then your man-picker needs a tune-up, oil change and lube job.

[Lizzie60]

'ready to help them along'

 

This is completely silly... I don't think they need any help... they're big enough to make their own choice.. I don't twist anyone's arm...

 

And to think that most if not all men would not cheat if they were given a chance with a beautiful woman and their W would NEVER find out... is very 'naive'... sorry but it is.

[I love hot men.]

What you said was that any of us who go out with the boys will cheat.

 

If that's been your experience then your man-picker needs a tune-up, oil change and lube job.

You're having a problem. this has nothing to do with my personal life. I personally was surprised when my friend told me how much she is hit on and propositioned by married golfers. My sister who serves many of the same golfers in her restaurant stated the same thing, about how much she is hit on by married diners in her restaurant. It was surprising to ME. Again...chill. I wasn't cutting you down personally as you have done me.

[Curmudgeon]

If you think your husband won't cheat when he's out with the boys, think again....

 

You didn't say, "if your husband is a rich, married golfer" he'll cheat. You lumped all married men into the catagory of cheaters.

[Curmudgeon]

You're having a problem.

 

Again...chill. I wasn't cutting you down personally as you have done me.

 

I have no problem because I don't cheat. If I choose to go out with the guys I still wouldn't cheat but you intimated that I would, and I DO take that personally!

[I love hot men.]

You didn't say, "if your husband is a rich, married golfer" he'll cheat. You lumped all married men into the catagory of cheaters.

 

I didn't do anything wrong. If you think I posted something which violates board rules, report me, but you need to stop attacking me personally. I don't think that all married, rich golfers will cheat. My point is, which you lost, is "You may think your husband is faithful, but he may not be." Let's leave it at that. I was simply stating how often my friend is hit on and propositioned by married men. I do think that says something.

[I love hot men.]

I have no problem because I don't cheat. If I choose to go out with the guys I still wouldn't cheat but you intimated that I would, and I DO take that personally!

 

OK, well, then be happy that you don't cheat. I was simply stating a fact about what happens to my friend (on a daily basis.) If you don't like my thread, too bad. I didn't violate any board rules.

[IfWishesWereHorses]

ILHM,

 

You are also talking about a specific cross sections. Men who have the time and money to take expensive vacations with they boys. These expensive vacations come out of large expense accounts! Many of these men do feel some type of entitlement. Also though, be aware that there are within these groups a lot of competition, not only in business, or the golf game but a little game of "macho one-up-man" when it comes to women.

[I love hot men.]

No, you don't get it. It wasn't a gross generalization when my friend gets hit on (and propositioned) by married men on a daily basis. My sister gets hit on by married men frequently, also, and her own HUSBAND IS IN THE BACK, HE'S THE CHEF. This thread is NOT worth your time, so please leave it!

I was simply stating that men cheat more than you probably think. Sorry that, as Lizzie stated, it hit quite the nerve with you.

[Curmudgeon]

Once again, you didn't limit your remarks to your friend's experiences. You threw it out there as all inclusive -- "If!" "Then!"

 

I get it just fine. Obviously it's over your head!

[IpAncA]

...in your avater can I hit on you? You're lovely and I'm married. I'll even take up golf! :laugh::rolleyes:

 

No it's not me but we could pretend. Sure hit on me.:laugh::lmao:

 

And yes there are some general statements here. Sure some men cheat, but so do women and I'm sure it's just as common as men.

[I love hot men.]

Once again, you didn't limit your remarks to your friend's experiences. You threw it out there as all inclusive -- "If!" "Then!"

 

I get it just fine. Obviously it's over your head!

 

No, it's really over your head. You are thinking that it just happens to my friend and sister ( and me) at one golf resort? Again...and this has gone WAY over your head SEVERAL times...it refers to the MANY, MANY married women out there who have NO idea their husbands are out there cheating when they are not with them. It's a very apt title, which is not violating any board rules of conduct which you have done. I understand what "if" and "then" mean, thanks.

[Trialbyfire]

There are plenty of men who hit on attractive women "just because they can". You might be surprised at how many would back off if a woman were to agree to it. Of course, not all are like this but when you're sitting at the watering hole on the 18th green, relaxing with the boys, telling fish stories, flirting becomes a game of manhood.

[Curmudgeon]

Actually, it's quite on topic.

 

Stop and think for a moment without getting emotional and defensive.

 

Your original premise was a warning to women that their men will cheat if they go out with the guys. There were no qualifiers. Therefore, that was a gross generalization about those of us men who are married and might spend some time with their guy friends.

 

That was what I took umbrage at. You seem incapable of getting it.

 

We married men are not all cut from the same cloth. I don't care whose experience you wish to cite. I could go out with the guys, play a round of golf, stop at the 19th hole, have a few drinks and never hit on a waitress or bar maid. Since I have a wife at home I simply wouldn't do it. It would be inappropriate.

 

Now remember, in this scenario, I'm married aand out with the guys. Therefore, not all of us do it.

 

That's my point which you seem to consistently miss.

[I love hot men.]

Actually, it's quite on topic.

 

Stop and think for a moment without getting emotional and defensive.

 

Your original premise was a warning to women that their men will cheat if they go out with the guys. There were no qualifiers. Therefore, that was a gross generalization about those of us men who are married and might spend some time with their guy friends.

 

That was what I took umbrage at. You seem incapable of getting it.

 

We married men are not all cut from the same cloth. I don't care whose experience you wish to cite. I could go out with the guys, play a round of golf, stop at the 19th hole, have a few drinks and never hit on a waitress or bar maid. Since I have a wife at home I simply wouldn't do it. It would be inappropriate.

 

Now remember, in this scenario, I'm married aand out with the guys. Therefore, not all of us do it.

 

That's my point which you seem to consistently miss.

No, I get your point. However, I stand by my title. Whether you would cheat on your wife or not is really irrelevant. It's simply stating to MANY, MANY married women that they don't really know what their husbands are doing when they are out, and it has absolutely nothing to do with golf. I didn't say they all would do it.

In actuality, you are the one getting emotional and taking it personally, not me, so time to stop now, thanks.

[Trialbyfire]

Cheating and flirting without intent are two different things. A man that flirts, even when he gets into the propositioning in front of his buddies, does not mean he intends to cheat.

[Curmudgeon]

No it's not me but we could pretend. Sure hit on me.:laugh::lmao:

 

Wanna go out for a drink, a cuppa coffee, do a l'il dancin', see what shakes out?

[Curmudgeon]

...is better than getting none of it at all! :rolleyes: