If you think your husband won't cheat when he's out with the boys, think again....

[Lizzie60]

Thanks! But I think my point has been made and it is time to be done with it. I actually think the men who most vehemently deny the amount of cheating that goes on are the ones who are capable of doing it.

 

Capable of doing it or doing it or wishing they could do it..... otherwise they wouldn't be so sarcastic or arrogant about it...

[I love hot men.]

....

 

That comment wreaks of being jaded.. are you ?

 

You did make your point though

 

I don't think I'm jaded. I suppose that's a matter of opinion. My comment about men who vehemently deny cheating wasn't directed to any posters on this thread, btw.

[Topper]

OK I'll re phrase my post. " If you think your wife won't cheat but shes working outside the Home think again."

 

Think I'll start a golf Vacation Club. the course would have to be challenging. Nice hotel and excellent food. Bar with small club. the staff with be all woman. Bar tenders, waitresses, caddies, women running the beverage carts on the course. The only men might be the course ranger and and pros. men don't like woman as golf instructors. There would be lingerie fashion shows at night. There are a few counties in northern Nevada that allow legal prostitution. The more I think about this the better i like it.

Thanks, I like hot guys, I think you just made me a millionaire! Lets see peter dye cource. Hotel maybe some time share condos ............ WOW I just had the idea of b a life time! Time Share Call girls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG it's brillent!

[luvmy2ns]

OK I'll re phrase my post. " If you think your wife won't cheat but shes working outside the Home think again."

 

Think I'll start a golf Vacation Club. the course would have to be challenging. Nice hotel and excellent food. Bar with small club. the staff with be all woman. Bar tenders, waitresses, caddies, women running the beverage carts on the course. The only men might be the course ranger and and pros. men don't like woman as golf instructors. There would be lingerie fashion shows at night. There are a few counties in northern Nevada that allow legal prostitution. The more I think about this the better i like it.

Thanks, I like hot guys, I think you just made me a millionaire! Lets see peter dye cource. Hotel maybe some time share condos ............ WOW I just had the idea of b a life time! Time Share Call girls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG it's brillent!

 

Your first "employee" can be L60. She already knows the ropes!

 

I have to agree with the poster who made the distinction that these are all rich guys at a ritzy golf course. Their wives probably married them for their money and would just as soon they cheat so they don't have to "service" them in order to keep their wallets filled. And these men already feel very entitled, just like surfgirl's fiance on the thread about his leaving her in the dust to take a nice vacation with his rich family. Yup, most people with lots of money have a very skewed vision of society and what it means to be a decent human being.

[Krytellan]

I actually think the men who most vehemently deny the amount of cheating that goes on are the ones who are capable of doing it.

 

That's the part that likens this thread to talking to a brick wall. No man here has been denying that the cheating happens. Duh, of course it does. You are the one totally not paying attention to what people are really saying and you keep repeating the same inaccurate statements over and over and over and over and over again. Your responses do not match the things you're responding to. I just don't understand.

[I love hot men.]

That's the part that likens this thread to talking to a brick wall. No man here has been denying that the cheating happens. Duh, of course it does. You are the one totally not paying attention to what people are really saying and you keep repeating the same inaccurate statements over and over and over and over and over again. Your responses do not match the things you're responding to. I just don't understand.

 

I am paying attention. I don't know why people got so worked up by this topic. Men post about "walk-out wives syndrome as an epidemic" "Women are overemotional beyotches who can never be satisfied with anything" etc. etc. etc. yet this one innocent post I was instantly blasted. I wasn't stating inaccuracies obviously.

[ruby_gloom]

i don't think there is anything wrong with the title of this thread.

 

the OP did not title it: "if you think your husband won't cheat, you are wrong because he will" or "all husbands cheat" or any other nonsense like that. those types of titles would be certifying that all husbands will invariably cheat, regardless of anything else.

 

all the OP suggested was that you think twice before so affirmatively declare and believe that your husband will not cheat. there is absolutely nothing wrong with suggesting that you think twice before making such an assumption over another person's actions.

 

the truth is that regardless of what a husband or any other SO might say, there is no way for the other person involved to be 100 percent sure that they will stay true to their words.

 

the only person who can be completely sure of that, maybe, is the person themselves. art, for example, says he won't cheat, and my guess is that he wouldn't ever do such a thing. but i cannot be 100 percent sure that he won't--only he can because only he knows exactly what goes on in his mind and heart.

 

while the thought of, "oh, i know my SO! he wouldn't ever do such a thing" is all nice and cute, i don't believe it. there is just no way for me to ever be 100 percent sure about the thoughts, actions, and reactions of another person, other than myself.

 

the title of this thread seems fitting. it's not declaring that everyone will--that is the inference you are making. to "think again" only means to think again--to think of other possibilities--not that you should "think again because you are wrong".

 

anyway, i agree that there are most cheaters in this world than there are not. the amount of people who actually truly care about others, enough to not cheat or to end the relationship beforehand when they feel they want to explore other genital, seems to be greatly wanning and highly outweighed by the number of selfish people.

[I love hot men.]

OK I'll re phrase my post. " If you think your wife won't cheat but shes working outside the Home think again."

 

Think I'll start a golf Vacation Club. the course would have to be challenging. Nice hotel and excellent food. Bar with small club. the staff with be all woman. Bar tenders, waitresses, caddies, women running the beverage carts on the course. The only men might be the course ranger and and pros. men don't like woman as golf instructors. There would be lingerie fashion shows at night. There are a few counties in northern Nevada that allow legal prostitution. The more I think about this the better i like it.

Thanks, I like hot guys, I think you just made me a millionaire! Lets see peter dye cource. Hotel maybe some time share condos ............ WOW I just had the idea of b a life time! Time Share Call girls !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG it's brillent!

 

Hate to tell you this reality but some of the men at these resorts do buy escorts while they're there. There is a very good looking female caddy at this resort and the golfers always want her to caddy and she makes tons of tips. She's a very good caddy, though, she doesn't sleep with the golfers, although....well, she is propositioned a lot, also. Again, kinda showing wives where their husband's minds are when they're out with the boys, if they're choosing a caddy based on her sex and looks.

[Art_Critic]

I don't know why people got so worked up by this topic. Men post about "walk-out wives syndrome as an epidemic" "Women are overemotional beyotches who can never be satisfied with anything" etc. etc. etc. yet this one innocent post I was instantly blasted. I wasn't stating inaccuracies obviously.

 

Those threads where people post about the other types you mention also get just as much attention as your thread did..

Some get even more..

 

By the way.. you have posted 40 posts to this thread in a short period.. so maybe you are also worked up some over this topic.

 

I don't think you posted any inaccuracies either.. just your opinion..

 

This type of thing would be too difficult to nail down to real numbers. So the only thing we have to go on is our opinions and those vary depending on our environment and our past experiences.. positive or negative

[IfWishesWereHorses]

I have to agree with the poster who made the distinction that these are all rich guys at a ritzy golf course. Their wives probably married them for their money and would just as soon they cheat so they don't have to "service" them in order to keep their wallets filled. And these men already feel very entitled, just like surfgirl's fiance on the thread about his leaving her in the dust to take a nice vacation with his rich family. Yup, most people with lots of money have a very skewed vision of society and what it means to be a decent human being.

 

OK, the wives married them for their money isn't true. I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SPEW THIS CRAP. First of all, assuming we are talking about first wives, the husbands didn't have anything when they married them other than potential. THESE men acting like teenagers on their little "retreats" aren't so wealthy that this isn't a special treat for them. So we are not talking about family wealth here. The wives in most situations, have groomed their husbands, help to make decisions on his advancements and probably done more behind the scenes work that he executive assistants. Saved and planned for their families for years. It's not HIS money, it is theirs. And yes while he's gone they are playing tennis and drinking martini's at the club while the housekeeper is shopping with the kids. Is it worth it? NO, but it beats the hell out of hanging the laundry on a clothes line outside your trailer while your husband it screwing the drive thru girl at the local hamburger stand.

 

Wealthy people with family "old" money are usually raised with a strong sense of social obligation. It is the people who are new to this lifestyle who money instills this sense of entitlement, for the most p art.

[Lizzie60]

Is it worth it? NO, but it beats the hell out of hanging the laundry on a clothes line outside your trailer while your husband it screwing the drive thru girl at the local hamburger stand.

Wealthy people with family "old" money are usually raised with a strong sense of social obligation. It is the people who are new to this lifestyle who money instills this sense of entitlement, for the most p art.

 

Hahahaaha.... You nailed it.. this is sooo true.

[Trialbyfire]

Maybe this is part of my problem with this thread. Any golf course that's considered world class doesn't need a resort to fuel it because they're private clubs. Are you certain these are golf resorts or just the standard convention centre style hotels packed full of inebriated salesmen on the make?

[luvmy2ns]

I have to agree with the poster who made the distinction that these are all rich guys at a ritzy golf course. Their wives probably married them for their money and would just as soon they cheat so they don't have to "service" them in order to keep their wallets filled. And these men already feel very entitled, just like surfgirl's fiance on the thread about his leaving her in the dust to take a nice vacation with his rich family. Yup, most people with lots of money have a very skewed vision of society and what it means to be a decent human being.

 

OK, the wives married them for their money isn't true. I HATE WHEN PEOPLE SPEW THIS CRAP. First of all, assuming we are talking about first wives, the husbands didn't have anything when they married them other than potential. THESE men acting like teenagers on their little "retreats" aren't so wealthy that this isn't a special treat for them. So we are not talking about family wealth here. The wives in most situations, have groomed their husbands, help to make decisions on his advancements and probably done more behind the scenes work that he executive assistants. Saved and planned for their families for years. It's not HIS money, it is theirs. And yes while he's gone they are playing tennis and drinking martini's at the club while the housekeeper is shopping with the kids. Is it worth it? NO, but it beats the hell out of hanging the laundry on a clothes line outside your trailer while your husband it screwing the drive thru girl at the local hamburger stand.

 

Wealthy people with family "old" money are usually raised with a strong sense of social obligation. It is the people who are new to this lifestyle who money instills this sense of entitlement, for the most p art.

 

 

So Paris Hilton and her ilk had nothing when they were born? WRONG. And she and her kind have a wonderful sense of social obligation? WRONG AGAIN.

 

Isn't there some happy medium between "playing tennis and drinking martinis at the club while the housekeeper is shopping with the kids" and "hanging laundry on a clothes line outside your trailer while your husband it (sic) screwing the drive thru girl at the local hamburger stand"?

 

And BTW, I don't "spew crap." "Methinks thee dost protest too much.":lmao:

[Trimmer]

ILHM - subject lines are important - when you use the phrase "If you think your husband won't cheat..." in the subject line, you are addressing every married woman. When you use the phrase "think again," it means "you're wrong," i.e. "he will."

 

So I was keeping an open mind, looking forward to some nifty new evidence or personal experience that would support your subject line, but your only substantial point was - correct me if I'm wrong here - lots of rich men at golf resorts are capable of cheating. This is a news flash? I accept that as stated - unfortunate, but no big surprise.

 

It certainly doesn't merit the breathless title line - I was hoping for something a little more interesting. I guess you could say I feel "cheated...." Yawn.

[VinaAmez]

No, it's not a meat-market. She gets propositioned daily at her workplace. A meat-market is when people go with the specific purpose of meeting the opposite sex.

Yes, I found it surprising at how cavalier these many, many men are and I feel it represents a good percentage of men out there. A married man is much more likely to cheat than a married woman, that's what I am 100% certain about. Sorry, but I do.

 

I know what a meat market is. Lol!! I was being sarcastic. Ahh...what was the point of this thread again?

 

I never been to these expensive golf places. The ones I have been to and seen are nothing but old people, families or couples. I have yet to see these married horny men hitting on people who work there? Where are these? I wanna see for myself.

[IfWishesWereHorses]

Wives married them for their money??? Want to outsource the sex??? IMHO that is crap. No woman of trailer or estate wants that! You are defining them by their husband's misbehavior.

 

Paris Hilton is a celebrity, that is completely different from the old "wealth" that I am refering to.

[luvmy2ns]

Wives married them for their money??? Want to outsource the sex??? IMHO that is crap. No woman of trailer or estate wants that! You are defining them by their husband's misbehavior.

 

Paris Hilton is a celebrity, that is completely different from the old "wealth" that I am refering to.

 

So you know all these rich horny guys at this particular golf course personally? I was speaking in general terms. Many rich people - especially men - feel very entitled by mere virtue of their wealth. In their estimation, wealth = power, and so they abuse it.

 

And are you seriously going to tell me that NO woman marries for money alone? I KNOW that's "crap." At least on my planet.

[IfWishesWereHorses]

So you know all these rich horny guys at this particular golf course personally?

 

LOL, I have been to enough of these resorts all over the country to know their MO's! I can assure that that the dynamics are no different.

 

I have also spent time at the most exclusive "members and guests" only clubs. The kind you can't "buy" your way into. These people don't hit on the staff! Do they have affairs, yes, but not for the same thrill of picking up a waitress in a restaurant. See they actually have a lot more to loose, are more discreet and discriminating.

[luvmy2ns]

So you know all these rich horny guys at this particular golf course personally?

 

LOL, I have been to enough of these resorts all over the country to know their MO's! I can assure that that the dynamics are no different.

 

I have also spent time at the most exclusive "members and guests" only clubs. The kind you can't "buy" your way into. These people don't hit on the staff! Do they have affairs, yes, but not for the same thrill of picking up a waitress in a restaurant. See they actually have a lot more to loose, are more discreet and discriminating.

 

So the resort in this thread must be the newly rich a-holes then. So what makes you think the newly rich wives don't know their men f around on them but stay for the money anyway? I know women who've given up their ideals and, more importantly, their very selves in order to remain comfortable financially.

[luvmy2ns]

...it never ceases to amaze me how many women on this site have been to all these "exclusive places all over the country" when it's convenient to say it in a post.

[I love hot men.]

ILHM - subject lines are important - when you use the phrase "If you think your husband won't cheat..." in the subject line, you are addressing every married woman. When you use the phrase "think again," it means "you're wrong," i.e. "he will."

 

So I was keeping an open mind, looking forward to some nifty new evidence or personal experience that would support your subject line, but your only substantial point was - correct me if I'm wrong here - lots of rich men at golf resorts are capable of cheating. This is a news flash? I accept that as stated - unfortunate, but no big surprise.

 

It certainly doesn't merit the breathless title line - I was hoping for something a little more interesting. I guess you could say I feel "cheated...." Yawn.

 

My subject line I still feel is appropriate because tons of wives out there have no idea their husbands are out trying to have affairs. I just find that at this resort I was at, it is 90% men, and groups of men, away from their wives for several days. When the cat's away, he will play was my point. The fact that it is an expensive golf resort really didn't have anything to do with my point. Yawn yourself, if you don't like the post, or find it boring, don't respond, how's that? Just because you have been a member longer doesn't mean you can dictate other member's post title and if they were "correct" or not. I stand by my title. It is not breaking any board rules of conduct or it would have been removed by now, right?

[VinaAmez]

...it never ceases to amaze me how many women on this site have been to all these "exclusive places all over the country" when it's convenient to say it in a post.

 

Well I never have. Makes me feel poor. Oh well...

[luvmy2ns]

Well I never have. Makes me feel poor. Oh well...

 

I feel rich because my man doesn't fall into the category of the men who are the subject of this thread. He is so good to me!

 

A couple tidbits from the net:

 

“In fact, celebrities and wealthy men may be more likely to cheat than regular men because of their increased opportunities, power and ego.” Stephany Alexander – The Authors Den.com

 

Do rich men cheat more?

”Yes! Fully 32 percent of men making more than $300,000 a year reported cheating, compared with 21 percent of men who made less than $35,000 a year. Why? Wealthy men probably have more opportunities than poorer men. Interestingly, wealth doesn't appear to be a factor for women's affairs.” Netscape Love and Personals. - No. 1 Reason Men and Women Cheat & MSNBC.com - Relationships

[luvmy2ns]

ILHM, you keep bringing up the site rules. LS doesn't require that posters have concrete facts or intelligence.

[Trimmer]

...if you don't like the post, or find it boring, don't respond, how's that? Just because you have been a member longer doesn't mean you can dictate other member's post title and if they were "correct" or not. I stand by my title. It is not breaking any board rules of conduct or it would have been removed by now, right?

Um.... what does being a member longer have to do with this? Who brought that up? And how can I "dictate" something that is already in place? I was commenting on its accuracy. Actually, LS is for discussion, which sometimes includes disagreement. If I find that I disagree with you, or find your posts misleading or confusing, or even "not news", I may decide to execute my right to comment, which has nothing to do with my length of membership, but rather simply requires that I have access to a computer connected to the internet. Considering how low a standard that is, feel free to discount my opinions - an option that I use as well - but that's not "breaking any board rules of conduct" either, so please don't "dictate" to me whether I should post or not.

 

My subject line I still feel is appropriate because tons of wives out there have no idea their husbands are out trying to have affairs. I just find that at this resort I was at, it is 90% men, and groups of men, away from their wives for several days. When the cat's away, he will play was my point. The fact that it is an expensive golf resort really didn't have anything to do with my point.

So now it has nothing to do with expensive golf resorts.... I'm just trying to understand your actual point here, and neither your subject line, nor your posts seem to be helping to solidify things.

 

So does your basic point boil down to: "tons of wives have no idea that their husbands are out trying to have affairs?" Fine, given that "tons" is a conveniently non-specific term, I can't disagree.