If you think your husband won't cheat when he's out with the boys, think again....

[Krytellan]

No, I get your point. However, I stand by my title. Whether you would cheat on your wife or not is really irrelevant. It's simply stating to MANY, MANY married women that they don't really know what their husbands are doing when they are out, and it has absolutely nothing to do with golf. I didn't say they all would do it.

 

Actually, you should look at your title again. It doesn't say many many, it refers to all. Just sayin'.

[IpAncA]

No, I get your point. However, I stand by my title. Whether you would cheat on your wife or not is really irrelevant. It's simply stating to MANY, MANY married women that they don't really know what their husbands are doing when they are out, and it has absolutely nothing to do with golf. I didn't say they all would do it.

In actuality, you are the one getting emotional and taking it personally, not me, so time to stop now, thanks.

 

True many don't know their SO's are not trustworthy. So then in a round about way our SO's are not trustworthy.

 

Sounds like the places your going are full of retards. Doesn't surpise me though.

 

Wanna go out for a drink, a cuppa coffee, do a l'il dancin', see what shakes out?

 

Sure. H passed out from drinking so he's good for a few hours.

[Curmudgeon]

Sure. H passed out from drinking so he's good for a few hours.

 

Then ILHM and Lizzie will have a defensible point! I consider it a service to validate them, don't you? :lmao:

[IpAncA]

Lol!

 

Honestly I've never actually seen all this cheating/hitting on like people talk about. I think it just depends on what you do and where you hang out at.

 

If you around it a lot you tend to think it happends a lot. If your not well then you don't. I find the truth hangs out in the middle.

[I love hot men.]

If you consider a golf resort in Average America USA full of "retards" keep fooling yourself. I simply was on vacation, and this is what happened. Many, many, many men cheat and this was an example. Sorry, but your post is not very intelligent. I am not impressed with people who use the word "retard" in normal conversation. Lots of men cheat. That's a fact. There are golf courses, restaurants, and bars everywhere. Cheating men aren't limited to places in which I hang out.

If I have a friend who is a waitress who gets hit on daily by married men, this does not make them retarded. It simply means that there are a LOT of men out there who will cheat if they had the chance, so I stand by my title.

Sorry but this board isn't limited to threads which will make everyone feel good so that it is worded the way you want it to. My point is that there are TONS of men cheating out there, and TONS of wives who don't realize it, thus the title.

[I love hot men.]

Lol!

 

Honestly I've never actually seen all this cheating/hitting on like people talk about. I think it just depends on what you do and where you hang out at.

 

If you around it a lot you tend to think it happends a lot. If your not well then you don't. I find the truth hangs out in the middle.

 

I don't hang around at these places a lot. I was on vacation, and visiting a friend at a restaurant at where she works. These are not seedy places. These men are paying $350 for a round of golf each day. My sister's restaurant is ranked very highly and is starting to become nationally recognized. It is a very classy place, and actually many families and married couples dine there, also. Cheating men are everywhere, where you'd least expect them. Because my sister and my friend get hit on by married men is not a statement of the "kinds of places" they work at. The whole thing was a reality check to MYSELF. That's what you don't understand. the whole point is there are TONS of men out there cheating.

[I love hot men.]

Actually, you should look at your title again. It doesn't say many many, it refers to all. Just sayin'.

 

I don't see the word "all" in the title. Just sayin'. Frankly I couldn't give a rat's whether you like the title or not, I feel it's very fitting for my original thread. I don't see why you are taking this so personally, obviously the thread doesn't apply to you personally, so stop being offended, OK? Thanks.

My waitress friend has had men definitely tell her (on a daily basis, not "flirting" or beating around the bush) that they wanted to have sex with her, in no uncertain terms.

It happens to her all the time, definitive propositions....on a daily basis...from married men. Just sayin'.

[IpAncA]

If you consider a golf resort in Average America USA full of "retards" keep fooling yourself. I simply was on vacation, and this is what happened. Many, many, many men cheat and this was an example. Sorry, but your post is not very intelligent. I am not impressed with people who use the word "retard" in normal conversation. Lots of men cheat. That's a fact. There are golf courses, restaurants, and bars everywhere. Cheating men aren't limited to places in which I hang out.

If I have a friend who is a waitress who gets hit on daily by married men, this does not make them retarded. It simply means that there are a LOT of men out there who will cheat if they had the chance, so I stand by my title.

Sorry but this board isn't limited to threads which will make everyone feel good so that it is worded the way you want it to. My point is that there are TONS of men cheating out there, and TONS of wives who don't realize it, thus the title.

 

Oh come on. Word usage doesn't mark an smart person. Everyone knows that.

 

And sure it makes them retarted because only a retard would cheat if given the chance. Now THAT's a generalization worth making IMO.

 

And yes cheaters are everywhere. We get that.

[Lizzie60]

If you consider a golf resort in Average America USA full of "retards" keep fooling yourself. I simply was on vacation, and this is what happened. Many, many, many men cheat and this was an example. Sorry, but your post is not very intelligent. I am not impressed with people who use the word "retard" in normal conversation. Lots of men cheat. That's a fact. There are golf courses, restaurants, and bars everywhere. Cheating men aren't limited to places in which I hang out.

If I have a friend who is a waitress who gets hit on daily by married men, this does not make them retarded. It simply means that there are a LOT of men out there who will cheat if they had the chance, so I stand by my title.

Sorry but this board isn't limited to threads which will make everyone feel good so that it is worded the way you want it to. My point is that there are TONS of men cheating out there, and TONS of wives who don't realize it, thus the title.

 

TONS of men cheat...

 

I just remembered, a good friend of mine... I have spoken to her about 8 months ago... I haven't seen her for years... anyway... I remember she told me once that she had an affair with a much older man, while working in a very high end golf course in Quebec...

 

She was very pretty and she told me that she was hit by married men every day.

 

and again I agree.. men cheat everywhere...

[I love hot men.]

TONS of men cheat...

 

I just remembered, a good friend of mine... I have spoken to her about 8 months ago... I haven't seen her for years... anyway... I remember she told me once that she had an affair with a much older man, while working in a very high end golf course in Quebec...

 

She was very pretty and she told me that she was hit by married men every day.

 

and again I agree.. men cheat everywhere...

 

Yes, it shocks me how naive people are about this. I don't think my original thread really was shocking or should have caused offense to anyone, including men. I mean, if you're a man and you don't cheat, good for you. I still feel the title of the thread is very appropriate, obviously ALL men shouldn't be dumb enough to take it literally and point it to EVERY person. There are so many topics on this board where men generalize about women, obviously I'm not going to take offense because I am smart enough to realize the thread wasn't directed at me personally.

[Art_Critic]

The same goes for married women....

 

I don't think you meant to include ALL men even though your OP does include ALL men..

But....

I think the same generalization is also good for women..

 

I have a friend of mine that is a bouncer at a night club and he always telling me about how many married women hit on him while he is working..

 

TONS

[I love hot men.]

That's what you posted. That encompasses, includes and covers any and all men who go "out with the boys."

 

If you teach the developmentally disabled I would hope you use more understanding and logic than you've exhibited here.

 

Only if you choose to take it that way. It's not my problem if you choose to take the title personally and literally. That, however, is no reason to use personal attacks against me, as you have in the second paragraph here.

[Storyrider]

I simply was on vacation,

 

I think many of us enjoy a vacation such as yours. Did you say you were gone two weeks? So relaxing.

 

Cheating men are everywhere, where you'd least expect them.

 

Just like the feminists. They're everywhere too, according to some.

[Art_Critic]

If I used my one bouncer friend to decide that TONS of married women in the world cheat on their husbands I would be naive..

[I love hot men.]

The same goes for married women....

 

I don't think you meant to include ALL men even though your OP does include ALL men..

But....

I think the same generalization is also good for women..

 

I have a friend of mine that is a bouncer at a night club and he always telling me about how many married women hit on him while he is working..

 

TONS

 

I believe it. In fact it doesn't shock me at all.

[I love hot men.]

I think many of us enjoy a vacation such as yours. Did you say you were gone two weeks? So relaxing.

 

 

 

Just like the feminists. They're everywhere too, according to some.

 

Thank you, it was a great vacation. It was very relaxing, actually.

[Lizzie60]

Yes, it shocks me how naive people are about this. I don't think my original thread really was shocking or should have caused offense to anyone, including men. I mean, if you're a man and you don't cheat, good for you. I still feel the title of the thread is very appropriate, obviously ALL men shouldn't be dumb enough to take it literally and point it to EVERY person. There are so many topics on this board where men generalize about women, obviously I'm not going to take offense because I am smart enough to realize the thread wasn't directed at me personally.

 

People get very defensive on the 'Infidelity' topic for some reason... LOL

and yes... people are naive when it comes to cheating... your OP was just fine... too bad if it hits a nerve to some people... not much you can do about that... I very much agree that whenever a pretty woman works at a place mainly visited by men...she will see MMs hitting on her on a daily basis... even an hourly basis. LOL

[I love hot men.]

If I used my one bouncer friend to decide that TONS of married women in the world cheat on their husbands I would be naive..

 

Personally I think it is a solid statement of how lots of married women also have no problems cheating when they think they won't get caught. I think it's naive to think otherwise. That is basically the point of my thread. Lots of people cheat, and their spouses are unsuspecting. Sorry if I offended so many people. I know people are going to jump on me and say I was just directing it at men, but I don't really care. I don't feel my thread was really offensive at all, or off-topic to this section of the board.

[Art_Critic]

I believe it. In fact it doesn't shock me at all.

 

 

I think the same can be said about any job that has to deal with the public..

Even Secretary's at law office's get hit on by married men...

Nurses...

 

Construction workers... Lawyers...

 

Whatever.. as long as they have to deal with the public and the chance of flirting happens then that can up the ante some...

 

Such as life though...

[Lizzie60]

The same goes for married women....

 

I don't think you meant to include ALL men even though your OP does include ALL men..

But....

I think the same generalization is also good for women..

 

I have a friend of mine that is a bouncer at a night club and he always telling me about how many married women hit on him while he is working..

 

TONS

 

I disagree... Golf resort are not 'bars'.. they are mainly visited by men... and it is a sport..

 

Bars, on the other hand, are a place where people flirt and mainly go to find a date or sex... not exactly a place for married people... LOL

You can't compare golf and bar scene...sorry.

[Art_Critic]

people are naive when it comes to cheating...

 

I don't think so Lizzie.. I'm not naive about it..

 

In a business such as yours where most of your clients are married then I would have to say that you stats would be biased and not show the average of the populous.

 

IMO your clients certainly are not considered part of the populous to the point that they make up the thing.. They don't...

 

I wold make a bet that there are men out there that don't cheat as well.. you are not looking for those so you don't see them.

 

I don't cheat and never will.. never have and my faith has been tested many many times..

[I love hot men.]

I would tend to disagree as Lizzie would see how easily a supposedly very devoted married man (to everyone else) would cheat. She has seen it many, many times.

[Art_Critic]

I disagree... Golf resort are not 'bars'.. they are mainly visited by men... and it is a sport..

 

Actually.. that is an untrue statement..

The number of women golfing equals that of men..

 

There are also many people that go to golf club resorts that don't play golf..

Growing up I was one of them...

I ave never played golf but ate lunch and dinner at one every weekend while I was growing up.. I was always with my Sister,Mom and Grandmother.. all 3 Women

[IpAncA]

I don't cheat and never will.. never have and my faith has been tested many many times..

 

I don't know....the stats say different. j/k.

 

Bars, on the other hand, are a place where people flirt and mainly go to find a date or sex... not exactly a place for married people... LOL

 

Depends on where you go. Married people go to bars Lizzy.

[Lizzie60]

I don't think so Lizzie.. I'm not naive about it..

 

In a business such as yours where most of your clients are married then I would have to say that you stats would be biased and not show the average of the populous.

 

IMO your clients certainly are not considered part of the populous to the point that they make up the thing.. They don't...

 

I wold make a bet that there are men out there that don't cheat as well.. you are not looking for those so you don't see them.

 

I don't cheat and never will.. never have and my faith has been tested many many times..

 

For your information Art, I am 55 yrs old... I've been seeing MMs for the last 4 years ONLY... not before that....

 

So don't tell me that I am biased because of my so-called business... I'm not... I have a good day job... I am with married people all the time... at work, socially...

 

Just look at the stats... you'll see that most men do cheat.. women do cheat too but the stats are still not as high...

 

Men and women don't normally cheat for the same reasons.