blksun Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 This is the first time I have posted on here and was very grateful to see an informative website. Here is the sitution. I have known this guy for about 2 years socially and found out through him that he has an addiction. I have always had a crush on him but knew that nothing was ever going to come of it as I really have no desire to deal with that......now fast forward a year later. He has been clean for 9 months and has just got in contact with me for the second time. He would like to go out, and I to would like to try this. However I am not to sure what the chance of relapse is and if he would be ready for a relationship......any thoughts would help. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 This is the first time I have posted on here and was very grateful to see an informative website. Here is the sitution. I have known this guy for about 2 years socially and found out through him that he has an addiction. I have always had a crush on him but knew that nothing was ever going to come of it as I really have no desire to deal with that......now fast forward a year later. He has been clean for 9 months and has just got in contact with me for the second time. He would like to go out, and I to would like to try this. However I am not to sure what the chance of relapse is and if he would be ready for a relationship......any thoughts would help. No one can say what the chances of relapse are... nobody... so you got to go with your instincts... Be careful, don't get attached to this boy, just in case he does relapse, protect yourself. Take it slow... keep your eyes wide opened. Link to post Share on other sites
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