Cleavage, push up bras, when is it to much?

[Topper]

When i was younger I dated a woman that was extremely beutiful and sexy. infact her older sister had been in Playboy Mikki was infact the better looking then her sister. no matter how mikki dressed guys would take notice. Like the rolling stones song "she could make a blind man cum." when she did dres sexy, guys did stare and down right leer. yet she always always made sure that they knew she was with me. I loved that I was the guy who was going outwith the hottest woman around. The only time it wasa problem was when some azz madea rude coment that we could hear. I then simply told the guy he was such a jerk that the only way he could ever have a woman like that was in a pathtic wet dream.

Get over your insucurities, yes she does like the attention. She is in her 40's she knows she does not have that many years left when she will be able to turn heads. Just remind her that in 20 years when nobody else will be looking you will still think she is the hottest thing around.

 

On a side note: All the woman here said you can't tell her how to dress. Yet I will bet that ever woman here has also told their husband or SO " Your wearing that? Or "That shirt does not go with those pants " Now go change.":laugh:

[NorCalDave]

Okay, this topic is something I totally debate in my head all the time.

My ex is 49 but looks fabulous. Her body is amazing.

Sexy.

Proportionate.

Symmetric.

36D, 5'3", 121, with toned muscles, beautiful mocha Mexican skin, and hardly and wrinkles on a GORGEOUS face.

She's had her pick of any man she wants her whole life.

The thing about her is, she seems to always be wearing either low cut or really tight clothing.

She works out hard in the gym to achieve her body, so yes, she deserves to flaunt it.

The thing that bugs me is she seems to do it because she knows men love it when they can see her boobs hanging out.

I hang out with her still- we're like the quasi-couple- and wherever we go, men gawk.

Why?

Because they see skin.

If she was wearing a sweater or turtleneck? Men would still look, but they wouldn't STARE:confused:.

She is a hairstylist, and I have seen her interact with her male clients, and ALL OF THEM WANT TO BANG HER.

They keep coming back to her to get their haircut (and some keep asking her out, actually, to which she gracefully declines) just so they can get their fill of optical pleasure for the day.

I can't stand going in public with her sometimes because it gets annoying knowing that every oogling man wants to bang her.

And I am being real here.

Men are pathetic and so obvious sometimes. I can't stand the guys who just gawk at her at the gym.

It's like, get a clue bro, at least peek out of the corner of your eye if you can help it.

But it pisses me off because she knows that by showing a little skin she will get that much more attention...

WHY???

Is her self-esteem so low that she needs this external validation?

Maybe.

Just maybe.

I think another part of it is she likes to be fashionable and feel like a woman.

And a little cleavage and cute shoes are simply a fashion statement for her sometimes.

So it's a mixture of both.

I just get annoyed that she always has to be the center of attention and all eyes always seem to be on her chest.

I am not bad looking myself and happen to have a great body too, but that doesn't mean I am going to wear a skintight wifebeater and skin-tight jeans everywhere I go because I NEED women to look at me....

...When I see a sexy girl walk by, I stare like everyone else.

BUT! If I see her WITH A MAN, I will simply look once and OUT OF RESPECT I will then look the other way, because if I were that guy, I wouldn't want every Tom Dick and Harry staring at and lusting after my woman.

Men make me sick, and so do women.

 

Doesn't anyone have any decency or social awareness anymore??????