Lucian Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 Hi all, My wife has some weird behavior, we are separating (details here:http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1246103#post1246103 ). She started going our to clubs, restaurants, etc. with her GFs from work (both divorced in their mid to late 40's). She picked up golfing - after taking lessons and buying expensive equipment, now she is not going anymore as she claims that she wants to spend time with the children. In weekends both of us are at home, I agreed to give her one full day with the kids but when she is with them she is asking me to leave the house, I dont (where am I supposed to go?) she gets mad loads the kids in the car and she goes to her sister who lives in a tiny apt. I for one, in weekends, don't care if she is around or not. She refuses to talk to me, she is furious at me. We are past the reconciliation phase (it hurts but - you cannot force someone to love you). I initiate contact only when I have to say something about the kids or the house, she is replying only via email to me. She just told me yesterday that everything is over between her and her "flame" at work, I know for a fact that he stopped any form of contact with her. She also blames me for the separation and eventual divorce. She is tired of me.... some things that did not bother before now upset her very much (about me) and she realized that marriage adds to misery. I don't understand this? What misery? Can any of you make sense of all of this? Is it important for me to understand? Probably no, but these things still bother me.... Link to post Share on other sites
funkybassplayer Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 In a word, selfish. Going out clubbing, my ex did that and would tell me about the guys that chat her up and stuff. She thought she was being honest, i said takes two to chat up. SELFISH stick to what your doin (minimum contact) and let her bugger up her life even more. Link to post Share on other sites
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