Pinup1982 Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 Ok, so here's the basic jist of my story... My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for 3. We have suffered numerous seperations, which were mostly my decision. This last seperation has been the worst, I actually was honest with him and told him that I wanted to pursue another relationship with someone. This was not the reasoning for me leaving, but it was a catalyst that brought it to the surface quicker. So the other relationship didn't end up working out (yeah, big surprise there!) but i continued to be seperated from my husband. Almost 6 months has passed, but it seems as though for the last month I have seen him in another light. The only thing I have EVER been missing in my relationship with my husband was desire and wantoness. And now, completely out of nowhere, I have it. I am sure many of you are thinking that this is a last ditch effort, that I am lonely. But let me tell you that is not the case! I have plenty of men who I talk to or date, but I am SOOO attracted to my husband. So, although I know I don't deserve a second chance, he and I are working on the possibility of one. I need all the advice i can get! So please help me put back together my marriage!!! Carrie Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pinup1982 Posted July 12, 2007 Author Share Posted July 12, 2007 bump.....please help me..... Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted July 12, 2007 Share Posted July 12, 2007 Hi Carrie Did your husband have anyone else he was interested in for the last 6 months. Sometimes whether we like it or not, the green-eyed monster comes out when our SO finds someone else after we dumped them. If not, you need to ask yourself what will you do when things slow down and the passion dies again...? A continuous round of splits and make-ups just to keep that passion alive isn't really healthy. You guys need to work on your issues through the troughs as well as the peaks. Have you thought about marriage counselling..? It might help unloosen the knots that your relationship is in and give you guys a way forward. It does seem it's worth a shot though no..? Link to post Share on other sites
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