dance_avec_moi Posted July 9, 2007 Share Posted July 9, 2007 I saw a really old thread about this subject and thought I would revive it, since this is "wedding season" after all! I found an interview with David Boyer, the author of Bachelor Party Confidential: A Real-Life Peak Behind a Closed-Door Tradition about what really goes on at bachelor parties and thought it was interesting. So what do you girls think? Do you trust your man enough to let him continue the "tradition" of a bachelor party? Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I saw a really old thread about this subject and thought I would revive it, since this is "wedding season" after all! I found an interview with David Boyer, the author of Bachelor Party Confidential: A Real-Life Peak Behind a Closed-Door Tradition about what really goes on at bachelor parties and thought it was interesting. So what do you girls think? Do you trust your man enough to let him continue the "tradition" of a bachelor party? Trust has nothing to do with the fact that if we ever get married he will not have a bachelor party. If he feels he needs "one last night of freedom" and a pretty much anything goes free pass to cheat then he isn't marrying the right person. (Of course I am talking about the bachelor parties where there are strippers not innocent ones spend with just his friends.) Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I saw a really old thread about this subject and thought I would revive it, since this is "wedding season" after all! I found an interview with David Boyer, the author of Bachelor Party Confidential: A Real-Life Peak Behind a Closed-Door Tradition about what really goes on at bachelor parties and thought it was interesting. So what do you girls think? Do you trust your man enough to let him continue the "tradition" of a bachelor party? The article was very interesting and very true... There is not much the soon to be wife can do... really... it's a tradition... just like the wedding... LOL If it was my guy, I would tell him to enjoy his last night of freedom...LOL and to get as many lap dances as he can... Like the article says..it's more the 'friends' that are likely to 'fool' around with the strippers.. not the groom. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 that it is something like what I Love Hot Men posted yesterday... in the article, he said that it was more hands with a wedding band that were reaching for the boobs....married men again... Oh ... Dance avec moi.. I don't know if you're French... but Danse in French is spelled with an S... Dance with a C is English... Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 Agreed with the article... most bachelor parties turn out pretty weak and if something adults-only does happen it's usually the other guys and not the groom. I don't really understand it myself... if I was the groom I'd certainly want to be involved in it all! Last party I went to we played skirmish, went to dinner, then hit a strip club for a couple of hours and it took a lottttt of convincing to get the groom to accept a lap dance. I think the type of guy that is keen to get married is also very likely to put aside his own desires in favour of what he thinks his fiancè wants. Link to post Share on other sites
I love hot men. Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I think the type of guy that is keen to get married is also very likely to put aside his own desires in favour of what he thinks his fiancè wants. I wouldn't be with a guy who desired to get a lapdance from a stripper. Link to post Share on other sites
disgracian Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I met up with half a dozen mates at a pub for some drinks, before going to an Indian curry restaurant. I've always found lap dances and other forms of debauchery to be sleazy and also a turn-off. Cheers, D. Link to post Share on other sites
doiask42much Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 Did this guy really have a typo in the title of his book? Or did he actually mean peak, like climax maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 The article was very interesting and very true... There is not much the soon to be wife can do... really... it's a tradition... just like the wedding... LOL If it was my guy, I would tell him to enjoy his last night of freedom...LOL and to get as many lap dances as he can... Like the article says..it's more the 'friends' that are likely to 'fool' around with the strippers.. not the groom. She can choose to not marry someone who will disrespect her wishes when it comes to something like this. Again if a man views getting married as losing his freedom why is he getting married at all..... Link to post Share on other sites
I love hot men. Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 She can choose to not marry someone who will disrespect her wishes when it comes to something like this. Again if a man views getting married as losing his freedom why is he getting married at all..... Exactly. I would want him to consider us getting married the happiest period of his life and he would not have the desire to be turned-on by other women. I don't understand the "last night of freedom" anyway because he has been in a committed relationship by choice with his fiance since the dating stage and then the engagement stage, and he chose to do this because hopefully he loves her and wants to be in a committed relationship with her, there would be no reason for him to want to get lap dances from a woman he doesn't know at a strip club. I have no problem with a guy's night out, as the poster above who went out with his friends for curry, etc. I believe it should be more of a celebratory event of happiness with one's friends. I don't like this whole idea of men really see marriage as the woman trapping them. It's simply a fallacy, they want marriage as much as their fiance or they wouldn't be getting married. Thanks, Lizzie, for pointing out the 'married man' thing. More support for my previous thread, which is ruffling some feathers. Link to post Share on other sites
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