moimeme Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 Taste is Taste, but unfortantly, for most of us men, women tend to prefer that 8"x7" thick dong which we guys never have seen but only heard about Funny that it's only ever men who insist this. I guess if you can't get along in a relationship, it's easier to blame it on the lack of a massive schlong. Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 I agree. Size preoccupation is primarily a male thing. Our focus on this says more about male anxieties( or is that fantasies?) than actual, real world female relationship concerns. I suspect that a large number of women would prefer "emotionally" well-endowed partners. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 Excellent point, Bark Link to post Share on other sites
yogi-mon Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 I have had EX's who have flatly told me that "I love big cocks" They have said things like Its the difference between feeling something, and feeling like you're stuffed - I like that feeling. It is not "just a male thing" but it is definitly ALSO a male thing - That I will NOT deny. I actually never even gave penis size a thought until I had an ex go ON and ON about "Big Penis" .. big penis this big penis that. I am actually quite endowed myself, not huge, but slightly above average. And I can tell you that my endowement does not make a difference. However if I was to add an inch or two in width, I believe it would make a physical difference to women. Esspically visually - The anticipation factor. Men with very small penises will suffer from a variety of sexual difficulties. Such as penis falling out all the time, lack of feeling (both man and woman) etc etc etc I can add some more if you like. If there is such a thing as To small, then size matters. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 You are one of the unfortunate guys who ran into a woman who actually cared. It's like men who HAVE to have a very bosomy woman. The way the media goes, you'd think every man is that way, but there's men who like every different size and shape and there are men who'll take any of 'em any size just because they are there. Same with penises. Every now and then, there'll will be a woman who HAS to have a big one, but from posts here and other such debates and certainly everyone I know, it's not the view of the majority of women. Men who are experts in kissing, foreplay, etc. are the real prizes. Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 im one of those women who think size does not matter its how you use it...... if people cant look beyond the size barriers then they will indeed be unsatsified with sex...... Link to post Share on other sites
bark Posted November 21, 2003 Share Posted November 21, 2003 Men who are experts in kissing, foreplay, etc. are the real prizes. Are there women out there who prefer large men?. Sure. Just like there are women who prefer tall men, thin men, etc. We all have aesthetic preferences. Big deal. But we're talking about mature adult relationships, here. I continue to believe that, in the context of an otherwise solid relationship, size does not matter unless the guy is "tiny tim" or "king kong." Moimeme is right: in the context of a relationship guys who can kiss, touch and just have fun, are much better lovers and companions than a well hung robot. Link to post Share on other sites
LauraD Posted November 27, 2003 Share Posted November 27, 2003 Originally posted by bark Moimeme is right: in the context of a relationship guys who can kiss, touch and just have fun, are much better lovers and companions than a well hung robot. I don't think there is any doubt about that. I've had a relationship with each of the aforementioned types of guy, and guess who it is that I still love? Sex is wonderful with a person you care deeply for. It seems to me that the size of a man's penis would not matter nearly as much as the feelings involved and the resulting manner in which he makes love to you. For many women, sexual pleasure is directly related to emotional and mental fulfillment. Over time, you're not even going to want that big penis nearby if the person connected to it is emotionally detached, uncaring or otherwise unsavory relationshipwise. It sounds like all the women who are demanding huge penises are either quite shallow or just plain out for some porn-style sexual gratification. How about a little sensitivity? Geez Link to post Share on other sites
havNfun Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 well in Samantha defense, sort of, what is so wrong with here having her own preferences and turn-ons etc. A lot of women find dick size important to them not only for physical reasons but emotionaly, it is hot for a lot of women the idea of being with a stud or being taken by a big strong dominant well hung guy. She had no way of knowing - or assuming - that he was going to have an abnormally tiny member. Then she became aware of his size and now is wondering if she is really attracted to that reality or not. Or, perhaps she's worried about how such a small penis might effect her future husbands behavior if perhaps he is insecure and does stuff to compensate. I would have serious doubts about marrying a lady that had hair completely covering her body. Samantha likes big dick and tiny men turn her off. this is fair Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 I've read some of the posts on the last part of this thread... I think size is important. Knowing how to use "it" comes in handy, but I think at some point one "can take the matter into their own hands"... I'm not putting loving, attentive sexual partners second or saying that using a XL size condom makes up for the rest of it in bed. One of the reasons I think it's important is for the variety in bed ( like positions, etc. ). Link to post Share on other sites
katie79 Posted July 20, 2004 Share Posted July 20, 2004 Size doesn't matter! What's important is that you love him and seriously want to spend the rest of your life with him. Good sex and a small penis are very different. It's like a good looking girl v.s. a girl with a great attitude about herself that's plain looking; men would go for the one with a great attitude over the beautiful one with a bad attitude. In other words, his measurements shouldn't affect your sex life if he's small. You shouldn't feel like "it's the end of the world" if this is the "last penis" you'll ever be with. When you're in love, that shouldn't cross your mind. If you feel so afraid, then either have a long engagement or break it off. Getting married should feel good, not like, "oh this is the last one I will ever have sex with and he's small too". Link to post Share on other sites
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