WiseOne Posted July 13, 2007 Share Posted July 13, 2007 Im not new here at loveshack i have 2 usernames WiseOne and WiseNitchie about 3 years ago i had a break up with a girl,me and her dated 1 year and 7 months, of course i tried nd tried to get her back but it didnt work, nd in the end she ended up beggin me back but i wouldnt take it and turned her down. Im a veteran at this but im not sure of this is happeing with my new relationship. Me and this girl have been dating 7 months shes 19 and im 17 turning 18 in september. Shes always been truthfull to me and always told me everything, yesterday she told me that her old ex messaged her on myspace and i know that he wants her back, i know i have the right as a bf to be concerned and i asked her would she considering taking him back becuz i know they were in love 3 years ago, so bassically me and her both was going thru breakups with our ex around the same time 3 years ago. I Asked her would she take him back and she at first said no no and gave me the no answer like 10 times, ya know becuz im paranoid becuz i've seen this happen before in my past. IM 100% OVER MY EX AND DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH MY CURRENT GF (HELL I DONT EVEN REMEMBER HOW MY EX'S VOICE SOUNDS OR HOW SHE LOOKS). And she said that she couldnt take him back becuz she loves me, but shes not sure if she would take him back becuz they had something special, and she doesnt wanna leave me becuz she loves me soo much. She said that she has a small amount of feelings for him, but maybe loves me more, I asked her does she wanna breakup so she can be with him i tried to break up with her like 10 times and she said jus forget about it becuz she doesnt want him back nd im not sure what she means. She also keeps saying she doesnt know if she would take him back. BUT I DO KNOW THAT IM NOT GONNA SIT AROUND AND PLAY GAMES WITH A GIRL AGAIN I LEARNED MY LESSON FROM WITH MY EX, AND SHE KNOWS ABOUT ME AND MY EX BECUZ WE WAS FRIENDS DURING THAT TIME AND I KNOW ABOUT HER AND HER EX, IM NOT WITH THIS **** AGAIN I LOVE MY GF WITH ALL OF MY HEART BUT IF SHES THINKING ABOUT DOING THIS TO ME ITS OVER. (GAMEOVER) PEOPLE IM WONDERING SHOULD I TRUST WHAT SHES SAYING OR SHOULD I END IT OR JUST CHILL. I'VE WENT THRU THIS BEFORE SO I KNOW U CANT MAKE ANYONE WANNA BE WITH YOU ,IM JUST WONDERING IF WHAT SHES FEELING IS NORMAL OR SHOULD THIS BE A RED FLAG, SO I WANNA KNOW WHAT U GUYS THINK? Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne Posted July 13, 2007 Author Share Posted July 13, 2007 Does anyone Have any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Author WiseOne Posted July 13, 2007 Author Share Posted July 13, 2007 Guys nevermind, i dont need any advice, im not gonna even try to fix the problem, its her not me, so therefore its her problem to fix it. Im a good guy at heart and if she cant see that well she can just go, i tried and tried hard enough. I'll just have to move on and never never look back, it'll be hard but i've done it before, so guys i guess im gonna fly blind. I dont deserve to have to go thru this all becuz she isnt over her ex, she should'nt have gotten in a serious relationship if she knew she still had feelings for her ex. If we stay together we stay together, if not well the show must go on. Thanks guys. Link to post Share on other sites
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