Turquoise Waters Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 I think people think about this too much. I have been in relationships with really handsome, in shape men, and I have been in relationships with average Joe types lookswise. I don't believe "studies" and such. It's all bunk. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 I don't believe "studies" and such. It's all bunk. no its not...human attraction is very well studied and predictable. I suppose you don't believe that earth goes around the sun also? Link to post Share on other sites
Turquoise Waters Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 no its not...human attraction is very well studied and predictable. I suppose you don't believe that earth goes around the sun also? I mean the studies which say "men are more picky regarding looks, so men don't have to work as hard at their looks." I gave my own experience of dating a lot of different looks types. I do exercise and keep fit, so I do tend to go for more active men because I tend to date men who share my interests. I have seen lots of really handsome men with women who were not nearly as physically attractive. Relationships have so much more involved than attraction and sex. If we believed all the studies, no average or under looking person would ever date and get married. I think you are on this site too much, to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Turquoise Waters Posted July 19, 2007 Share Posted July 19, 2007 I read an article recently on how women are pickier when it comes to physical attaction. They said not to blame women as there are biological reasons for it as well as influenced by those that you grew up around and other factors and that we can't control it. Sounds about right to me. The article also said how we look for someone that we like on an intellectual, emotional and physical level. To prove their point about women being more selective about physical attraction, they said that if you had 100 women in a room and told a man he could have sex with as many of them as he wanted, he'd probably have a pretty high number. On the other hand, if you had 100 men in a room and you told a woman she could have sex with as many of them as she wanted, she probably would choose 2 or 3. Well, the information makes me think that it's easier for men to find someone then. I mean, I think it'd be much easier if you'd be attracted to a greater number, right? On the other hand, I think it might be harder for men to stay with the same person...or rather...harder for him to pick "just one". I just thought that the information was interesting and might give some insight on the dating scene. See, I probably wouldn't choose any of the men in this very hypothetical study because I have to date a man for month or so to actually get to know them before physical intimacy becomes appealing to me. Lots of men are like that, too. So...this study is just...sorry, useless. Link to post Share on other sites
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