coolei4 Posted July 18, 2007 Posted July 18, 2007 Hi guys i need your opinion on this subject. Thanks: I have been with this guy for a year and a half. When we got together we lived in PA but know i have moved to FL for college. This past month we decided to take alittle break because he said the distance was getting to much for him. It hurt because i was dealing with it and i only wished he could deal with the distance like it do. but anyway.. we still talk on the phone...and i still plan on going to see him in october....he tells me he misses me and still loves me...yesturday he even said that his job was to protect me. I feel as if he is starting to come around and figure out that he misses me and wants me back thats what i hope anyways. I miss him still to and i do want him back..before we decided to split he told me that he wanted to get back together when we were older. I want go see him in october because i am hoping that it will remind him of how much fun we have and how much he wants me around. I kinda hope that he moves to florida at some point but he doesnt like my parents. He thinks they dont appreciate them but they do im just their only daughter so they are protective. I told him next year i will be 20 and if we want to live together they really cant do much about it. Still ..do you think that its a good idea to see him in october....do you think that i should wait for him. or do you think that he is using the exuce that the only reason why he is not coming to florida is because of my parents and he is not ready to be in a serious relationship........please help me.....my heart gets heavier and heavier everyday because i miss him and love him so.....
Duchesse Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 If this guy still says he loves you, and that it's his job to protect you then that sounds pretty sincere but the fact that he wanted a little break also sounds pretty serious. If you still love him then why shouldn't you go to see him in October? I think you should. At least when you get back you'll know exactly where you stand. As far as your parents are concerned, isn't he supposed to be coming back to see YOU not your parents? If he loves you enough he'll put up with your parents for a while to be with you. If you've been together for a year and a half then i can't imagine he has a problem with having a serious relationship, unless it hasn't been very serious up until now. But if you ask me using the excuse that he doesn't get on with your parents not to see you is pretty pathetic so maybe you should have a rethink about how much this guy means to you or more to the point how much you mean to this guy? But as I've said you should be able to work all this out if you see him in October . Good luck to you.
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