Tomcat33 Posted July 23, 2007 Share Posted July 23, 2007 haha, I am a happy bird. I picked this name lonelybird when I had nothing to with God, go figure, it is testimony:p :laugh: oh ok I'm happy to hear that! Link to post Share on other sites
BusinessSocks Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 I'm not really sure what the point of this thread is... It comes across like you are saying you are so superior that you would never be the OW... If that's the case, why would you come to the OW forum and post about it? Isn't it enough that you know it? Well said! Bravo! Link to post Share on other sites
BusinessSocks Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 Grown up people do not leave their spouses for someone else. They leave for themselves. EXACTLY!! Very well said! I wish more people understood that. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 Excellent point Lizzie!! That is my thought exactly. EVERYONE is in a position to feel unsure that their partner "could" trade them in for someone prettier, younger better etc. I'm just lol at the idea that the OW is younger, prettier or better. The exOW in my life was none of the above. She was older, not as attractive and a skank, not to mention a lousy mother. The only thing she did better than me was kiss my husbands ass, which was why he ran screaming from her as fast as he could! Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 Glad your bud got wise and got rid of the excess baggage.Yeah he did and he's been so much better since. The odd moment of wavering between being okay and being sad. But generally he seems to have accepted it and is trying to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 I'm just lol at the idea that the OW is younger, prettier or better. The exOW in my life was none of the above. She was older, not as attractive and a skank, not to mention a lousy mother. The only thing she did better than me was kiss my husbands ass, which was why he ran screaming from her as fast as he could! Well just goes to show it doesn't take much at all to win over your H. Not sure I'd be so proud of that if I were you!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 :lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Well just goes to show it doesn't take much at all to win over your H. quote] Win him over? Surely you jest, she was like a bad penny he couldn't get rid of...but it only took him a few weeks, I'm a tough act to follow, it would be difficult to do better. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 :lmao::lmao: ya...its always hilarious for you that someone would take a shot at a betrayed spouse. doesn't surprise me about you in the slightest. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 ya...its always hilarious for you that someone would take a shot at a betrayed spouse. doesn't surprise me about you in the slightest. it is hilarious that someone takes a shot at a BS who previously took a shot at a OW... :lmao::lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Not to worry Bish, I take no offense whatsoever, I've seen her photos. She provides a service, somebody has to. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Not to worry Bish, I take no offense whatsoever, I've seen her photos. She provides a service, somebody has to. At leat she is honest about her "service". Well thanks to her "service" it makes some men's marriages more bearable. You should be thanking her not putting her down. Link to post Share on other sites
TogetherForever Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 At leat she is honest about her "service". Well thanks to her "service" it makes some men's marriages more bearable. You should be thanking her not putting her down. Tomcat you should write a book. Or two. Great reply. As usual. People should also know that a dog always returns to where he is fed. So yes, bs will say they will go back with the wife & ow will say they go back to the ow. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 it is hilarious that someone takes a shot at a BS who previously took a shot at a OW... :lmao::lmao::lmao: But the OW deserved it..that is, if the OW has your lousy attitude about sleeping with other womens' husbands. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 At leat she is honest about her "service". Well thanks to her "service" it makes some men's marriages more bearable. You should be thanking her not putting her down. LOL...the men she sleeps with don't need to be married. So here we have another OW, or exOW...advocating sleeping with married men because they believe they provide a service....lmfao. You do know what they call women like that don't you? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 LOL...the men she sleeps with don't need to be married. So here we have another OW, or exOW...advocating sleeping with married men because they believe they provide a service....lmfao. Apparently they do, like 99.9% of the men who stay married and cheat. They want to stay married, and want to have a lover. Am I advocating of simply stating a fact? You do know what they call women like that don't you? Yeah, "smart"! Togetherforever: "thanks" (tee-hee) Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 thanks... geez you're swift... bish, you should give up...LOL you're making a fool of yourself.. Link to post Share on other sites
TogetherForever Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Apparently they do, like 99.9% of the men who stay married and cheat. They want to stay married, and want to have a lover. Am I advocating of simply stating a fact? Yeah, "smart"! Togetherforever: "thanks" (tee-hee) Right On TomCat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We're gonna get in trouble though for posting useless banter. How many points or red flags will we get? Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 There is too much in this thread for me comment on all of it so I'm just going with this blanket response. First of all I find the subject matter of this thread to be offensive to those that this LS forum section was made for. It doesn't belong here. Second, I am amazed at how delussional some of the BS that post here are. The things they say just make me shake my head in awe. But I guess they have to live in some fantasy land in order to justify staying with some one that CHOSE to **** some one else. I don't mean to be crued but that is exactly what they did. Third, it also amazes me that the BS that come here and bash every thread started by a OM/OW always say the same thing about "being over it" and how the "OW/OM wasn't important" and their lives are all "peaches and cream and happy now." Then why are they here EVERYDAY harrassing us? Seems to me they aren't as happy as they want us to think. Perhaps they have to come here and try to beat up and claim superiority over the OW/OM as a way of trying to bolster their self-esteem after dealing with the reality that their spouse ****ed some one else. Sadly, all the OW/OM bashing in the world isn't going to make them feel better in the long run. Maybe they should focus on working on their relationships at home and not obsessing over a bunch of strangers on a message board. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 but maybe we (OW) are part of their therapy...maybe it makes them feel good to bash us... So... here..another benefit of being an OW... we save some marriages by f*cking the MMs, and now we're being therapists to the BS... Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 but maybe we (OW) are part of their therapy...maybe it makes them feel good to bash us... So... here..another benefit of being an OW... we save some marriages by f*cking the MMs, and now we're being therapists to the BS... you kill me Link to post Share on other sites
TogetherForever Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 but maybe we (OW) are part of their therapy...maybe it makes them feel good to bash us... So... here..another benefit of being an OW... we save some marriages by f*cking the MMs, and now we're being therapists to the BS... Lizzie you are too much girlfriend!!!! But, No marriage saving here that's for sure!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 but maybe we (OW) are part of their therapy...maybe it makes them feel good to bash us... So... here..another benefit of being an OW... we save some marriages by f*cking the MMs, and now we're being therapists to the BS... Oh Lizzie...(is love too strong a word? oh what the heck..) I LOVE YOU! :lmao: Annbelle thank you for a post we can ALL relate to if not totally think like. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Apparently they do, like 99.9% of the men who stay married and cheat. They want to stay married, and want to have a lover. Am I advocating of simply stating a fact? First of all...show me where you got your statistic as fact. But lets assume it is fact...you advocated it not by stating what you said above but by stating, "Well thanks to her "service" it makes some men's marriages more bearable." Link to post Share on other sites
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