bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 thanks... geez you're swift... bish, you should give up...LOL you're making a fool of yourself.. Still waiting for her proof that her statistic is "fact". And sorry...it is someone like you who proudly anounces that you like to sleep with married men who makes a fool of oneself. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Well just goes to show it doesn't take much at all to win over your H. Not sure I'd be so proud of that if I were you!?!? Hmm... A useless potshot from you? I thought you only accused others of that. This thread is hilarious! All the OW's and the BS's on the floor in a hair pulling contest. I know who would win, because there is righteous indignation on one side, firin' up some adrenalin. Link to post Share on other sites
TogetherForever Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Who really cares about the reasons one would not become an ow??? I don't & I am not in the slightest bit by any of the comments. So again, who cares?:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Mino Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 That analogy doesn't work here. Alcoholics in a support forum are looking to keep from drinking. The OW here are proud to be servicing married men. They are not looking for support on how to stop being OW....and when I say "they", I am talking about the ones that chimed in on this thread just happy as clams that they are homewreckers. But hey, to each their own....I'd never sleep with a wh0re. Yes you did....... Your wife, remember:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 It doesn't matter which forum the question is presented on. Unless a person is completely dimwitted, you can tell from the title what it's all about. Just don't look at the thread! I'm just repeating what I hear from "the dark side." Not the same by a long shot. when a BS or a person who is just there to insult about the obvious, interrupts the flow of a thread that is being used to share stories and comments filled with pain anger or any sort of emotion...then that's a totally different story. Anyway I get the psychology behind your reasoning, we are the "bad" people so we deserve to be insulted, disrespected, etc...by you. I suppose that would make you the superior being. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 That analogy doesn't work here. Alcoholics in a support forum are looking to keep from drinking. The OW here are proud to be servicing married men. They are not looking for support on how to stop being OW....and when I say "they", I am talking about the ones that chimed in on this thread just happy as clams that they are homewreckers. But hey, to each their own....I'd never sleep with a wh0re. You really need to just get over it. I am genuinely sorry that your wife cheated on you and treated you so badly. You didn't deserve it, but what you are doing here is wrong. Venting your bitterness on the people here isn't doing you or anyone else any good at all. If anything you are putting them in a position to have to defend themselves and justify what they are doing instead of dealing with the issues that are really important. When my H cheated on me (multiple times with different one night stands) I knew it was wrong and I didn't derserve it. Honestly I feel no animosity for the women he slept with. Its not their fault he did not love me and respect me enough to be faithful. That was his fault, not theirs. And to respond to your earlier post directed towards me ..... I don't believe dating before my divorce was finalized makes me a cheater. His actions ended our marriage long before I made that choice. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 That analogy doesn't work here. Alcoholics in a support forum are looking to keep from drinking. The OW here are proud to be servicing married men. They are not looking for support on how to stop being OW....and when I say "they", I am talking about the ones that chimed in on this thread just happy as clams that they are homewreckers. But hey, to each their own....I'd never sleep with a wh0re. I'm sure a wh0re would never sleep with you either... I know I wouldn't... I am not that desperate! I get to choose my partners... Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Would you go to a recovering alcoholics support forum and post "This is why being and acloholic is so low"? And, BTW, most of the OW/OM (most being OW) on here are not trying to "recover" from anything. They're very proud to be screwing a MM. Therein lies the HUGE difference. An alcoholic in a support group is trying to quit f'ing up their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Yes you did....... Your wife, remember:lmao: You are soooo right there. And that is why she is out of the house. But let me rephrase...I would not KNOWINGLY sleep with a wh0re. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I'm sure a wh0re would never sleep with you either... I know you wouldn't...because I wouldn't give one like you the time of day. Some people have decency. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 And, BTW, most of the OW/OM (most being OW) on here are not trying to "recover" from anything. They're very proud to be screwing a MM. Therein lies the HUGE difference. An alcoholic in a support group is trying to quit f'ing up their lives and the lives of their loved ones. This is a "Ow/OM Forum" not a "Recovering OW/OM Sorry I'm Such A Skanky Slut Forum." If you come here thinking all the OW/OM should be looking for redemption that you are in the wrong place. That is not the purpose of the forum and those that post here should be treated with the same respect as anyone else posting in a forum that is designated for their issues. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 That is not the purpose of the forum and those that post here should be treated with the same respect as anyone else posting in a forum that is designated for their issues. People that sleep with other people's spouses deserve respect? I don't think so. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I'm sure a wh0re would never sleep with you either... I know I wouldn't.... LOL....at least you admit that you are. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 And, BTW, most of the OW/OM (most being OW) on here are not trying to "recover" from anything. They're very proud to be screwing a MM. Therein lies the HUGE difference. An alcoholic in a support group is trying to quit f'ing up their lives and the lives of their loved ones. What's wrong with that? I prefer MM because I don't want anyone in my life full time... I'm sure I'm not the only one who prefer a relationship like that. It's not for everyone but this is exactly what I want at this stage of my life... some women who are married also would choose a MM cause he is in the same position as she is... so it's the best possible arrangement most of the time. Not every OW are miserable... I certainly have no permission to ask.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 LOL....at least you admit that you are. I don't give a sh*t what you think I am... really... get a life. You're pathetic... no wonder she cheated on you... geezz Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 LOL... and we shall not forget another amazing service we provide... personal therapy to the MM as well... I am a confidant to my MM. Oh I so agree! The OW provides many services to the MM, free and easy no strings sex, ego-boosts, a sympathetic ear and escape from reality and the humdrum of the daily grind, yes, absolutely, OW certainly does provide a lot of services to the MM. The question is, what's he providing the OW other than a pack of lies? The MM sure as hell isn't offering much, other than a warm body, and most of us needmore than that, and certainly demand more than that. Personally I expect a lot from a man, and that's why I get it. Only a fool would accept OW status, and you're much too old to be that big a fool. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I'm sure I'm not the only one who prefer a relationship like that. Don't kid yourself. Some married cheater stopping by to be serviced is NOT a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 People that sleep with other people's spouses deserve respect? I don't think so. I don't repsect people who stay with there spouses once they have been cheated on. How many times did you take your wife back? How long did you stay with her once you knew she was sleeping with other men? It can go both ways. But I choose not to go into the Infidelity forum and call the BS names. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I don't repsect people who stay with there spouses once they have been cheated on. How many times did you take your wife back? How long did you stay with her once you knew she was sleeping with other men? It can go both ways. But I choose not to go into the Infidelity forum and call the BS names. Now this is just funny. On so many levels. What do you know about a long term marriage, lasting love, forgiveness? That's what I thought, but you go right ahead and disrespect people who know that a good marriage can survive an otherwise good spouse making a mistake. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Oh I so agree! The OW provides many services to the MM, free and easy no strings sex, ego-boosts, a sympathetic ear and escape from reality and the humdrum of the daily grind, yes, absolutely, OW certainly does provide a lot of services to the MM. The question is, what's he providing the OW other than a pack of lies? The MM sure as hell isn't offering much, other than a warm body, and most of us needmore than that, and certainly demand more than that. Personally I expect a lot from a man, and that's why I get it. Only a fool would accept OW status, and you're much too old to be that big a fool. You'd be surprise my dear...you'd be surprise... I do provide many services... and in return... I get great sex... I see them under their best 'behaviour', they 'adore' me... I don't have to listen to the snoring... pick up their dirty socks... argue about money issues... about spending my money... my house is always clean... I can come and go as I want... I rather have my life than the life of many BS on here that are miserable with their scumbag... doing all the house work, taking care of the kids, laundry, having money issues... etc... etc... I can go on and on... As you say: 'Only a fool would accept OW status, and you're much too old to be that big a fool' Yes but the fool also accepts trips down south 'gracieuseté' of the MM...and get spoiled... yes... the fool is laughing... Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I don't give a sh*t what you think I am... really... get a life. You're pathetic... No...that would be you. no wonder she cheated on you... geezz Awww...*sniff*...nice try cupcake. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 Now this is just funny. On so many levels. What do you know about a long term marriage, lasting love, forgiveness? That's what I thought, but you go right ahead and disrespect people who know that a good marriage can survive an otherwise good spouse making a mistake. I know more about what it takes to make a good lasting marriage than you do probably. Staying with your husband was your choice and I will respect that and not pass judgement on you. All I can is that I had too much respect for myself to stay with a man that broke our wedding vows. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I don't repsect people who stay with there spouses once they have been cheated on. How many times did you take your wife back? Once because I found out she cheated when we were engaged. How long did you stay with her once you knew she was sleeping with other men? The next day I found out she messed around during marriage, I told her to get out and that I was divorcing her. So I guess a whole day. Link to post Share on other sites
annabelle75 Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 So I guess a whole day. Then good for you. I believe you did the right thing. She didn't deserve your loyalty or trust. I don't think you are a fool. I think you are just very angry and directing your anger at the wrong people. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I don't give a sh*t what you think I am... really... get a life. You're pathetic Pathetic is sleeping with MM and liking it...and not just sleeping with one married man, but several...and actively going out and seeking married men like you have stated. Now THAT is pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
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