maoz Posted July 24, 2007 Share Posted July 24, 2007 In June I wrote about a male coworker I am attracted to. Got all the obvious criticism about not being commited enough emotionally to my husband. I have not done anything physically with this other younger man, and have not seen him for quite a while since I was away from work on vacation. Lately we became closer, more intimate emotionally. He told me he is leaving his job at the end of the month. This is probably good for me, but my heart feels like its being torn and I know I'm going to miss him. My husband and I are going for some councelling next week. I feel such a strong desire for him and knowing I cannot act on it makes me so frustrared, its like a pain in my chest, I think I may have fallen in love with him. It feels terrible and wonderful at the same time. I'm sure that under different circumstances there is a good chance we would be together. We communicate so well and he brings out my good energies. I don't think I've ever felt this way about a man. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted July 25, 2007 Share Posted July 25, 2007 maoz, that feeling wouldnt last. I'm not going to criticize you because you are doing the right thing. Is this younger guy really better than your Husband? All the counseling in the world will do nothing if you feel this guy is better than your husband. You need to objectively evaluate your options... otherwise going on about this other guy is just going to slow the process of fixing your marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
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