mewbomb Posted March 4, 2003 Share Posted March 4, 2003 Well... Im sure that lots of people have read my "is it possible" and a few other of my posts but this is really bothering me. For the past FOUR nights i have been having these dreams about my ex. Some just hanging out and going to dinner. Some with her at work with us being together and some punk saying he dated her. One of them was so lifelike i had to post here. Should i take these dreams as something real, or just me thinking of her. I just thought it was real strange that FOUR nights in a row i had these dreams! I guess this is part of the whole thing! any help is way appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted March 4, 2003 Share Posted March 4, 2003 I also have dreams about ex's, especially shortly after breaking up. I also HATE these dreams. But - they do go away. As far as I get it, dreams are often intricate combinations of what's been on your mind throughout the day - so if you had been thinking about her, no wonder you dreamt of her! just some thoughts, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author mewbomb Posted March 4, 2003 Author Share Posted March 4, 2003 I had some dreams while we were going out that she was unhappy and never saw it. When it came down to it... a few weeks went by and we broke up. Not sure if the dream meant anything... Interesting to say the least. I guess I was hoping that it would actually mean that somewhere down the road we would be seeing each other. Who knows what it means...if anything??? Well...thanks for the input everyone!~ Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 4, 2003 Share Posted March 4, 2003 Dreams are a silly little way for our subconscious mind to resolve things we don't have time to mess with while we are awake. Don't even make note of them. Your mind has already handled the matter. They really aren't an indication of anything except your mind working on resolving issues for you and helping you move along with your life. Interpretations of dreams is very subjective and you can make just about any meaning you want to out of them. It's futile to even try. If you were a pervert like Freud, everything would have a sexual meaning. Link to post Share on other sites
Myke Posted March 5, 2003 Share Posted March 5, 2003 I've had dreams about my ex as well. In one dream she was telling me how much better her life was without me by using material objects as an example, I bought a new car, I took a trip to hawaii, ect. She also calmined that she shot 28 short films that year (I'm an indie filmmaker who doesn't even shoot 28 films a year) not that she was interested in filmmaking at all in real life. The point was she was try to get to me in the dream. I figured out that this dream probably came about because of my own insecurities with myself. The fact that I feel like I haven't moved on when she has. So the point I'm trying to make is that sometimes I think these dream can tell you something. But they are you yourself telling you something. Kind of like your sub mind giving you a show to explain an inner feeling. of course I could be wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
TekKaman_HaLo Posted March 6, 2003 Share Posted March 6, 2003 Yeah, I've had dreams about my ex too. It's only been a month since we broke up, but I'll dream about her once or twice a week at most. One dream I had I was out in this field and I was chasing my dog through this V shaped cinnamon crop ( dont ask, I have no clue where that came from) but I ran after him into the garage and my ex was standing right there. That was probably one of the weirder ones. Another one I had I saw her at the mall with the new guy she's dating and she saw me, so she starts fooling around with him right in front of me. Dreams suck, I know, more like nitemares if ya ask me. But I agree about it being the subconscious mind. What we don't find resolution to in the waking world we'll surely find in our sleep. Maybe your dream is telling you to contact her, or maybe it's reminding you that she's not worth your time. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted March 6, 2003 Share Posted March 6, 2003 do you mean to say that after nearly 20 years of dreaming about former classmates on a nightly basis, I'm supposed to attend next year's reunion? I hated high school and didn't care for a lot of the people, who seemed to me to be very much clickish (jocks didn't interact with brains, who didn't interact with weirdos, etc). I try not to look back, and feel that class reunions are a step backward most, because there's always someone who whines about wishing they still could have their glory days from high school ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author mewbomb Posted March 8, 2003 Author Share Posted March 8, 2003 basically... last night i was staring at the ceiling wondering what i did... what i said...will i ever...blah blah blah!!! now this is really getting on my nerves........ and then, after staying up and losing sleep i had a long dream about her again!! i mean... come on... this is really sorry that i am going through this crap.... what should i do? deal with it... call?? i know thats not a good idea but whats with all this!! sorry for the numerous posts about all of this but i guess im in a bad situation!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Posted March 8, 2003 Share Posted March 8, 2003 I'm have dreams of my ex... still do, even after 1.5 years now. I'm terrified of that girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted March 8, 2003 Share Posted March 8, 2003 No, I would think that calling her would only make your dreams and troubles worse. Link to post Share on other sites
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