Signs? Or just strange coincidence?

[RedneckRomeo]

First let me say that last time I posted on here - I was sure the girl I liked had liked me back, and soon after - I found out I had been wrong. For some reason, now that I look back, almost every time she hooked up with a new bpyfriend - she would be super-flirtatious around me. I have no idea why it works that way with her and I doubt I ever will understand - but thats why I was wrong.

 

Now - for the good stuff mentioned in the title.

 

I went out to have a good time at a local band's concert with some friends. While we were there, my one friend suggested I dance with this one girl. Throughout the night, I always seemed to notice that same girl when she was there dancing, and that every time I saw her - she seemed to be nearby. Near the end of the night, there were a couple of songs where she was right behind me dancing.

 

Also noticed that often she would look my direction, but we never really made any eye contact. Could have been looking at something else - but I noticed it a lot.

 

The next morning - RIGHT BEFORE I WOKE UP - I had a dream where every girl I talked to was reluctant to talk, but when she passed by I was able to get her to talk to me. It's not really the content that matters - but the fact that this happened RIGHT BEFORE I WOKE UP - so that I had her memory in my head all morning - and effectively all day.

 

Then - to top it off - That night, I got a message on MySpace from a girl who looked so much like her I had to send a message back to find out if it was her. Should have known better - cuz it turned out to be some stupid porno-bot - but still made me wonder how it looked so much like the girl I had seen the day before.

 

So - what do you think? Signs that I should pursue her - or just coincidences that are just sticking out in my head because I was somewhat infatuated that one night?

 

I was leaning toward the coincidence - but it all happened so it fit together and just makes me wonder if its not something else telling me to go after her.

[directx]

Ehhh.... you know, I can relate to coincendence and signs, and in my past it just spelled disaster. I should have never believed in signs or anything.

 

I can also relate to the girl that gets flirty when they have a bf. I mean, what is that? Are they flaunting it in front of you? I have a whole story on this that no one wants to hear, but to make it short, she would pay me MORE attention with the BF than without. And the bF didnt care. (and no, it wasnt a temp thing because they date after HS as well)

 

You have to decide what you want and just take control.

[sparkie]

Honestly, regardless of whether or not these instances were coincidence or fate I definately think you should just take the chance to pursue this girl. If you have some way of finding out who she is than you should. It's all about taking chances when it comes down to it, and you'll never know if she's the one for you or not if you don't try. So who cares how you met her or how you got to this point, be the one to take the next step into your own hands and call the damn girl fool!!!

[Love&Light]

There is no such thing as coincidence, everything happens for a reason.