broke up and mix message need

[sonyjay999]

i broke up with my x a month ago because she began to take me for granted so i decided to end up it all started when i call her a foul name which i regretted it but i tried to fix everything but she wasnt moving with me, so i broke up wit her

now i see this girl almost every morning on my way to work and she constantly staring at me, making comment to her friends so she could get my attention, trying to spark up conversation with me. so one day she call me to ask me that she hasnt seen me in the morning and i told her that i havent been stayin home and she began to ask me if i had a new gf and i refuse to answer it cuz i felt like it wasnt her business. so from time to time she will call me or email she actually giving me my space she contacts me like once or twice a week but on the way to work she stays trying to get my attention

so i asked her to meet me for lunch and she ask me what is the miracle that i ask her to meet up for lunch

Now why is she asking me this????

 

i responding to her and said just want to have lunch with u thats all

then she ask me if i had a girl so i began to laugh cuz i knew this question was coming and she began to say i know u do that why u r laughin so jokin i told her yes i do and she work a block away from us and she began to ask me a million questions (literally)

which i dont understand whY???

then i told her its was a joke but that i do have a potential

then she tells me u could honest with me we are friends because im seeing someone, once she said that i was like ok then she began to tell me detail about this new guy which i told her im not interested in knowing (not because i was jealous it because i dont care about her personal life) but she kept on telling me his age, work , etc and how nice he s to her lol

so then she ask me about my potential and i told her that i kinda regret inviting her to lunch cuz i feel like im under arrest and she was a cop and she said i could go else where i was like come on and lets go eat

so while we are eating she s telling me that i was great guy wit a good heart but what went wrong is that we didnt see eye to eye

then she began to talk about the guy that he wants marriage (we talk about that) that she doesnt go out (something she did opposite when we were together she always went out) then we were suppose to see this movie together and she went to see

I feel that she was rubbing in my face

but i dont feel she was honest i think it was more to get a reaction from me

 

she s pretending that life is good and stuff that she went out to the movies and she saw this movie and i ask her how was it lol she couldnt even tell me details about the movie lol

which i think it was made up

 

i mean in the whole conversation during lunch i felt like she rehearse everything cuz she had a lot to say i just sat that and listen

 

she referred to me as babe twice and said opps and i laugh

 

when we were leaving she said it was nice havin lunch with u and that is nice we could be friends and i wish u the best on findin that someone for u and i wish her the same but one thing i was sincere she didnt sound too sincere about that

 

now my questions is why does it sound to me she rehearse this and she was very eager to meet me which i thought she will be hesitant

 

what is her motive?

does she has feelings for me?

 

what was that about talkin so much about the new guy?

 

why does she crave my attention when she see me

 

what do u think about my situation

 

fyi- i do miss and having feeling for her

 

thanks for reading

 

please help me out with some good advice cuz i m lost and will like to get back with her dont know how

[RedThorn]

You broke up with this girl, of course she is still interested.

Weather it is real interest or just the challenge to win you back I really can't say.

But you dumped her in the first place. Maybe you should take the time to sit and think about why you did.

[sonyjay999]

well she was great but until we had a huge fight that i called her a foul left a sour taste in her mouth and she became distance

 

u could say we both allow the relationship to go down

but it came down and due to her takin me for granted i had to leave and break it off

 

i will love to be with her if the old her comes back which could be possible

 

but i dont understand all these mix messages about

 

thanks