I like this girl... But I fear I'm too short...

[CoolJelly]

Well, last week I met this really cool girl on the internet...

Anyway, I'm 18 and she is a little older... She knows of my age of course but, for my height, i'm about 164cm tall.

She is around 169cm i think... possibly even taller...

Anyway... Her and I have become very close and she will come to visit me soon in September... Sure... But I'm really conscious about my height compared to her and I dont want to hurt her feelings... I feel really bad about this whole thing...

I'm really small compared to other guys in my high school and really conscious about my height...

Lately I have been trying to eat lots of food and do heaps of exercise which is good i think but im not sure if its going to be enough...

She will come to visit me in a few months... she is very affectionate towards me and has sent me gifts in the mail already so our relationship seems to have become somewhat serious and I dont want to break her heart...

 

I'm really desperate to grow a few extra cm's over the next couple of months before she comes and I was wondering if anyone could help me out like... tell me some tips or some special diet...

Really, I will do anything... anyythinggggg

Please help!

[Tony T]

Sorry, there is no special diet or exercise that will make you grow particularly fast. And chances are excellent that, at age 18, you are about as tall as you'll ever be. In some aomalous situations, adults experience late life growth spurts but this is very unusual.

 

Just be very honest with this lady about your size, then just forget about it.

 

You just need to be aware that in the longrun, you'll probably end up with a lady your size or shorter. But there are exceptions. This lady you anticipate seeing could make a great dating partner or friend.

 

If she doesn't live very close to you, the matter of your height vs. hers is immaterial. Just be sure you have a larger and somewhat older computer screen than she does.

 

Don't worry about this. Everything will work out for you. She's not the only woman in the world.

[Lilyann]

I would not worry about your height. I believe that you mentioned that this woman and you were becoming very close. If this is the case, she will care more about you rather than your height. I had a similar situation, but I was the the taller girl. I took the chance because he was comfortable that I was taller and vice versa. I was the best chance I ever took. Don't be afraid. It will all work out

[Emily55555]

height doesn't matter...believe me!! as long as u have a great personality.

 

but if you are really uptight about it... why not try platform shoes and baggy pants?!

[sheeba]

napolean was a very short man. i'm not saying he was fabulous-but he had plenty of admirers. its not how tall you are-its WHO you are-and what you emulate...and what you stand for and what you believe in. many powerful men are.....short. so what. no worries mate.

[life suuuuux]

Ok first of all...I think I'm the same exact height as you. (I'm in the US so we don't DO the metric system) And yeah I met some girls over the internet too.

 

I ALWAYS tell them my height before we meet.

 

If they respond with....

 

"oh. ic. dang your short. hee hee. " - STAY FRIENDS

" hey you're still taller than me.." - THERE'S A CHANCE

" dude I don't care.." - HELL YEAH

"ummmm" - SIGN OFF IMMEDIATELY. DELETE HER FROM BUDDY LIST.

 

But since you been talkin a while, and can't just "delete" her if she don't respond in a good way...you still gotta let her know before you guys meet up. Trust me, if she rejects you, 3 days later you'll find a new chick on the internet..

[Matt)]

Isnt there Like hormone shots that will make u actually grow taller, u know like they give to ,well midjets. Im not trying to offend anyone.