bobbie420 Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 I've never posted anything here before, but I guess there"s a first time for everything. Well, I am just getting over a really bad break up. Well, the friend that was there for me when I was down just happens to be married. I am actually kind of friends with his wife. Not real close friends, but friends, nevertheless. I have not slept with him, but we've been "messing around" for a few months, now. He expects me to sleep with him now, for sure. But, now the guilt has kicked in and I am having serious reservations about doing this with him. I don't want to ruin our friendship by just putting on the brakes, after all this time of leading him on. As guilty as I feel, at the same time, I feel like I've gone too far and there's no turning back. I'm just very confused and stressed out. If anyone out there has any helpful advice, please share. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 If you can't handle the guilt, I advice you not to get into it! It will only complicate things even more... Link to post Share on other sites
justice Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 I've never posted anything here before, but I guess there"s a first time for everything. Well, I am just getting over a really bad break up. Well, the friend that was there for me when I was down just happens to be married. I am actually kind of friends with his wife. Not real close friends, but friends, nevertheless. I have not slept with him, but we've been "messing around" for a few months, now. He expects me to sleep with him now, for sure. But, now the guilt has kicked in and I am having serious reservations about doing this with him. I don't want to ruin our friendship by just putting on the brakes, after all this time of leading him on. As guilty as I feel, at the same time, I feel like I've gone too far and there's no turning back. I'm just very confused and stressed out. If anyone out there has any helpful advice, please share. Clearly you are the only one in the position of stopping it. And I would advise you to stop it immediately and not see him anymore. If you feel this bad and this confused now before anything ever happens, you are only going to feel worse should it continue. Not to mention that if his wife finds out both of you are going to be alot worse than just confused or feeling like you have reservations. You are sitting on top of a powder keg that's been sitting in hundreds of degrees heat, do you really want it to blow? Or would you like to simply get down off of it and run like hell? Link to post Share on other sites
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