sheko kilmister Posted August 2, 2007 Share Posted August 2, 2007 for so long i've tried to cope with this "modern romance" ! but it didn't work out .. i mean .. i'm alittle old fashioned in love .. old school lover .. i write songs .. and i think that most of the words i say to my girl seem like lines from old movies (not stupid .. but maybe REALLY romantic !) .. i listen to elvis and the doors .. old rock n roll .. old country songs .. never been interested in those songs like "you're sexy you're hot shake that ass for me girl !" .. when i'm on a vacation with my friends i don't look for one night stand girls in the clubs .. and (for shame!) i'm faithful !! i've had 7 girlfriends and not once it worked out .. why ? bcoz somehow all my words doesn't make sense !! i don't try to overact but that's really me ! maybe the words and romance itself lost it's senses through the years .. you should've seen my face when i made a song for my girlfriend and i showed it to her .. she said "nice .. thank you .. so how r u doin!?" .. it was like i found her lost shoe or something !! if the dumbest person in the world stayed up all night to make u a song to make u happy .. and he made you the silliest song in the history of humanity .. at least u should make him feel apperciated for what he has done ! but .. whatever .. i thought that i always fall for the wrong girl .. but i realised that somehow all the girls have became the wrong girl !! i don't know should i look for love .. or therapy .. lol Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted August 2, 2007 Share Posted August 2, 2007 One day you will find someone you absolutely click with. I can tell what kind of guy you are by what you say. You have depth...substance. Some woman like the macho men. And others like the ones who speak from their heart. It took me many relationships to realize that I click with a guy like you are. I have only been involved with one guy like you. He's my BF now and to me no macho man could ever compare to him. We connect on an emotional level. I think guys like you are rare. And extremely special. Guys like you make it easy to go from the mindset of "girl thinking/guy thinking" and look at it like "human nature". And that's pretty cool. Be who you are and don't change for anyone. Stay true to you. One day someone is going to appreciate all the good qualities you have that make you YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Each generation wants to be a better parent and thus spoiling the kids and when they grow up they don't appreciate hard work and thus don't appreciate your poems, songs, etc. Back when girls plowed fields or worked in factories, they appreciated hard work, but not today's girls. How many girls cook at home? Cook? What's that they ask. How many do you know that are still virgins after 18? I think you have to be looking for a girl in her 60's in order for her to appreciate you, imo. For young girls today, it's about me, me, me. They don't compare to my grandma or my mother who could cook and certainly didn't go bar hopping and got drunk when they were 36. Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 Each generation wants to be a better parent and thus spoiling the kids and when they grow up they don't appreciate hard work and thus don't appreciate your poems, songs, etc. Back when girls plowed fields or worked in factories, they appreciated hard work, but not today's girls. How many girls cook at home? Cook? What's that they ask. How many do you know that are still virgins after 18? I think you have to be looking for a girl in her 60's in order for her to appreciate you, imo. For young girls today, it's about me, me, me. They don't compare to my grandma or my mother who could cook and certainly didn't go bar hopping and got drunk when they were 36.I know a lot of guys who went offshore to find their wives. The guys aren't putting up with it because they don't need to. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 That sucks that she didn't appreciate it. But maybe it was too soon for you to give her that song? Or perhaps even the wrong setting? I once had a random guy come up to me at church and give me a copy of a poem he had written for me. Never talked to this guy before at all. I found it to be more creepy than romantic. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 I found it to be more creepy than romantic. I would too because it's based on how you look rather than who you are. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 ^ Yup that was one reason. But I think a poem or a song is an intense way of showing interest in a person. If I got one early in a relationship, I'd be a little freaked out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sheko kilmister Posted August 4, 2007 Author Share Posted August 4, 2007 yeah maybe in your case that was too early .. but she has been my girlfriend for a year ! Link to post Share on other sites
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