the_best_foryou Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 I am already 24 yrs old. I am an undergraduate student. Still 2 more years to finish my first degree. And I also want to do Master and another degrees. Then finally I will finish my education at about 31 or 32yrs old. At that time I will have many degrees !( I don't know whether it is a good thing or bad thing)( I have too little social time to meet people as I need to study very hard!) ( And I think it is impossible to have any time or brain to attend or think about social life as I am doing 2 degrees and 3 majors) Should I stick to this plan? Any suggestions? And at school it is hard to meet peple at my age coz I attended school several years late. Is it 'danger' that I may not be able to find a good man after i finish all my degrees as I become older and my physical appearance will not be as good as I am now. Will I lose too much(the chance to meet a better man) to have the degrees??? Also, man like to be stronger than woman(I think this is generally true) if I have so many degrees will any good man like to get close to me? If I can find a man who can understand me and appreciate me, will this kind of man be at the same intelligence' level as I will be? If he is, will he choose such an old woman as I will be when I finish all my studies, he can choose younger and pretty girl?? I am worried about my current plans. Link to post Share on other sites
Author the_best_foryou Posted March 12, 2003 Author Share Posted March 12, 2003 Temperament is decided by fate and fate is the things done to somebody by uncontrollabe external force. I already lost him! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 Who's termperamnent? You decide your own. Start taking responsiblity for what happens in your life and stop shifting it to fate. You make fate happen for yourself by making the very best of whatever circumstances befall you. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 12, 2003 Share Posted March 12, 2003 So why do you need so many degrees? You ought to talk to college and employment counsellors. There is no need for multiple degrees unless they fit into some career strategy where all of them will be necessary. As far as meeting men is concerned, you can meet them at any age. The best time is between high school and college because the greatest number of men your age are single and available. As time goes on, that number shrinks somewhat. But they are always out there. You can still date men a year or two younger. However, if you put off your socializing until your early thirties, there will still me a lot of men out there in their thirties who haven't married yet or who are divorced. I don't think you need to worry so much. Finding an ideal partner has more to do with you and your personality than it does about available partners. Those are always around if you keep you eyes out. The only problem most men will have with your multiple college degrees is why you spent some of the best years of your life getting them. I think you need to have a good answer ready. There will be many men with fewer degrees around who will be very confident and have no problem with your degrees. They are pretty meaningless unless you go out on dates and only talk about all of your degrees. Learn to keep your mouth shut about them and don't go around bragging and boasting about them. Guys will never know...until later after you've known them a while. Link to post Share on other sites
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