Worried7 Posted August 3, 2007 Share Posted August 3, 2007 If u don't know what's going on you can read my first post " I NEED TO MAKE A TOUGH DECISION " I broke up with him last night. I'm fine for right now..just as long as I don't focus on all we've been through together, etc. It sucks breaking up with somone who you planned to marry. He was my first love..and maybe we are meant to be together but for right now it's way too complicated. Good luck to the rest of you, and take this advice from me: Don't fall in love too young & definitly don't plan your life out with somone at 16 years old. I'm almost 19 now but was 16 when we got together Link to post Share on other sites
In_thespurofthe_mome Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 Hmm... don't fall in love too young? Feelings just happen, it's not like you can prevent yourself from falling in love. I mean if you could, there would be less heart ache out there from rejection! I think you should just be thankful you were able to experience a mutual love. What greater happiness can anybody ask for? And despite depressing memories, let the happy ones overcome them. Fall in love, just don't be short sighted. Break-ups happen, it's life. Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 I think you should just be thankful you were able to experience a mutual love. What greater happiness can anybody ask for? And despite depressing memories, let the happy ones overcome them. I liked this line of thinking. I think maybe when the pain is less, the happy memories overtake the sad ones. As for falling in love, indeed - what greater happiness can there be...? Those who feel love for another are truly blessed in the gifts they give and receive. Some people search a life time to know how it feels to truly love someone. There is no age limit on it and it is one of the things which makes us human... that we can love and cherish another. Link to post Share on other sites
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