Gunny376 Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Yea! I know! The hardest thing about being a Spartian? Is being AN old one? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Wait just a second here. You talk about how you need to start with the tough love, yet you ALLOW her to take these dogs? These dogs are YOURS just as much as hers. GET THOSE DOGS BACK! At least one of them. This is the PERFECT example of showing tough love. Call her, tell her that you are getting at least one of those dogs back if not both. STOP ROLLING OVER AND PIDDLING. You are tolerating her bahavior towards you so that is just allowing her to continue doing it. She doesn't respect you because you have not DEMANDED the respect. Buying her things, showing her the world in her eyes was not something being respectful over, because of her IMMATURITY. Like I said, you can't fix that. She only can. She has you on the verge of taking pills? Listen.. Women love confidence in a man, it's one of the things that gets them off. They don't want someone hanging onto their ankles. That is what they do to us, so why would they want the samething done to them? You need to start CARING for yourself and start setting short term goals for yourself. Sounds like you have based your own self-worth on this woman and trust me, when you get true loving from a real woman you will look back and think 'I can't believe my ex had that much power over me'. NOW is the time to start changing. It starts TODAY. It starts by YOU gettings those dogs back. Your situation sounds so creepy, only because I was put through the same thing. She took one of my german shepherd pups when she left, took him to her moms. That week she didn't pay attention to him while she was at her moms with him and he was hit by a car and killed. Don't let this happen to you. Link to post Share on other sites
notspiritual Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 DidEverything, you and me, we had the wrong approach with women in the first place. We’ve got a lot to offer to any women: we are young, rich, educated and smart. I don’t know you but I am damn good looking too. I don’t have my 6 packs abs yet but I am working on it. Instead of following our natural instinct of sleeping with as many women as we can, we decided to get married and to devote our unconditional love to just one woman. But marriage kills romance and leave you broke. I came to realize that women do not deserve to be treated as a princess unless they earned it. You have dogs so you must know about dog training. You reward the dogs only if they behave correctly, same thing with women. If you reward the dogs when they s**t on your carpet, they’ll keep doing it, same thing with women, they’ll keep serving you with their crap. You had the wrong approach to women that’s why you are in pain now. Get out of the house and go f**k 10 other women and see if the pain is gone. Link to post Share on other sites
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