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A "Blast" from the Past


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WOW talk about feeling stupid.....

Well i just came home from what i can call a very awkward and pissed off night...

Bassically about a yr. ago i used to kind of sort of be with this guy...me and him, and my friend and his friend were all together..I dont really call it being together because i really didnt have strong feelings for him, it was more of a sexual relationhip more so... he was more into me in a serious.passionate way than i was to him...WELL anyways it ended up just me becoming tiered of him and his friends, and their immature ways so beassicaly we(me and my friend) blew them off and changed our numbers and never really spoke to them again...The reason i did this was because i just felt that this "thing" we had was going nowhere and i just wanted out..So about a week ago his friend called my friend (i dont know how he got the #!!!) and said that he wanted to see us bla bla bla...well we went and hung out for a bit, and my guy kept staring at me and giving me weird looks bringing up stuff like wow u changed ur num.. etc..

SOOOO we saw them again today and they invited us to a movie, i was okay with it because i know that my friend was developing feelings for her old fling again...neways we met them up and to my surpriseee i see my old guy with another girl.. i was just shocked and a little pissed off...WHY WOULD U WANT TO INVITE ME IF THIS GIRL IS HERE....may I ADD i know this girl because she comes into the store that i work at and shes really nice.. the whole night me and her where talking and joking..

IM JUST MAD AND CONFUSED AS TO WHY HE WOULD DO THAT????

DOES THIS SHOW THAT HE NEVER GAVE A **** ABOUT ME OR was he just moving on because i was never serious with him and blew him off????

 

guysss what was he thhinking and girlsss did i just completey look stupid toniteee

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soO HIM trying to make me jealous is that some sort of payback or what? im just trhough with these immature guysss!

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KenzieAbsolutely

you're obviously still into him. you went so far as to change your numbers, and then you hung out? that makes no sense. you still want this guy to want you even though you claim you don't want him.

 

part of getting someone out of your life involves not flaunting yourself in front of them to get their attention while, at the same time, trying to convince them that you are over them.

 

so now you're all pissed off because you basically told this guy to go look elsewhere because he wasn't going to get it from you--and he listened. he found it elsewhere, and you feel rejected.

 

this happens less and less as you grow up.

 

he isn't the one being immature and playing games. he's the one being realistic and moving on.

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