Did I do The right Thing??

[Cofused]

my boyfriend of six months and I recently had a one week break peroid over a rumor that was spread around my town about me sleeping with his best friend of course It wasn't true but how was he to know that??

 

Last night I saw him again after our one week seperation and we talked and decied we should stay together

 

I'm not so sure If I want it to work though heres what happened and Why I feel this way

 

The other night I had no I dea he was in the same store as me I was looking to buy some cds then All the sudden these two very familair hands whith a familar touch were wrapped around me I turned around and glory be It was my Boy Friend he said he thought about and he trusts me and loves me and doesn't want to lose me and that it was stupid of him to believe a rumor over his own true love

 

A few minutes earlier I was thinking about him and I paged him

 

I was going to tell him it was over

 

After he said what he said to me I just melted and couldn't say anything so I just laid a long kiss on him

 

he goes"I'm guessing this means were a couple again" not knowing what to say I said of course '

 

we only see eachother once a month do to the two hour distance between us school and work

 

I love him and trust him I guess but in my gut I still hav a nagging nerve(like most women) that I can't trust him this is why I don't trust my self with him he makes me melt everytime he even smiles

 

and that drives me nuts cause when that happens I'm at a total loss of words and have no control over what happens

 

I know my prob. is very confusing

 

If anyone has any comments or thoughts please don't heasitate to tell me them

 

I'll take anything anyone can giv me

 

thanx!!

 

Cass

[Kyra]

I can't make your decisions for you, but here's what I think: You were going to break up with him when you paged him because you don't love him anymore. If that's the case, then you owe it to both of you to end the relationship. On the other hand, you were going to break up with him because you didn't like the fact that he believed the (untrue) rumour about you sleeping with one of his friends. If this was the real reason you were considering ending it with him, why don't you continue dating him for a while and see how it goes? You've only known each other 6 months, and maybe he wasn't sure if the rumour about you was true. I'm not saying it was right that he believed the rumour, but sometimes trust takes time to develop between people. It sounds like you feel a great deal for him, because you say you often melt when you are around him. This indicates a lot of attraction for him still. Like I said, I can't make your decisions for you, but maybe what I have suggested is at least worth thinking about. Good luck!

 

my boyfriend of six months and I recently had a one week break peroid over a rumor that was spread around my town about me sleeping with his best friend of course It wasn't true but how was he to know that?? Last night I saw him again after our one week seperation and we talked and decied we should stay together I'm not so sure If I want it to work though heres what happened and Why I feel this way The other night I had no I dea he was in the same store as me I was looking to buy some cds then All the sudden these two very familair hands whith a familar touch were wrapped around me I turned around and glory be It was my Boy Friend he said he thought about and he trusts me and loves me and doesn't want to lose me and that it was stupid of him to believe a rumor over his own true love A few minutes earlier I was thinking about him and I paged him I was going to tell him it was over After he said what he said to me I just melted and couldn't say anything so I just laid a long kiss on him he goes"I'm guessing this means were a couple again" not knowing what to say I said of course ' we only see eachother once a month do to the two hour distance between us school and work

 

I love him and trust him I guess but in my gut I still hav a nagging nerve(like most women) that I can't trust him this is why I don't trust my self with him he makes me melt everytime he even smiles and that drives me nuts cause when that happens I'm at a total loss of words and have no control over what happens I know my prob. is very confusing If anyone has any comments or thoughts please don't heasitate to tell me them I'll take anything anyone can giv me thanx!! Cass