Jelie Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 I am so confused. I am only 18 and I have been dating this one girl for two years now. She has been my world for the last two years. She has been there for me through everything. We have had all of the ups and downs. And then came the big one. I graduated and she didnt. I moved away, only about and hour and a half, but with college comming up and me needing to work my way through it, I can rarely see her. Maybe once a month. Two if I am lucky. Where I am confused is what to do about our relationship. I care so much for her. I love her. But the more I get out the more I see that there is so much more out there. Like me and my girlfriend are exact opposites to the point where we get in fights sometimes we are so different. But then I meet a co-worker who is just like me and I start to think whether or not I would prefer that. And then there is everything else going on. I keep meeting people but I cant truely meet them because I am tied down. I mean, I like what I have now, but I am scared that I will miss out on something else. What do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
lurvesick Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 Maybe you need to ask yourself..are u just looking for an excuse to end this relationship because u want to move on and see if your more compatible with someone else? or because ur tired of been with that one person for the past 2years..the spark isnt there anymore? maybe you guys should take a break. ask for some space because u need time for figure out things. see how she reacts to that. Link to post Share on other sites
BohemeRose Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 I know this isn't what you want to hear, but the fact of the matter is you're still rather young and perhaps shouldn't be tied down to a really serious, exclusive relationship at this point in your life. With so many changes in your life, you're bound to change, as well as your needs. If you think that you'd like to stick it out with your current girlfriend, then I wish you the best of luck, but it sounds to me that circumstances are already beginning to change what you both need in life to be happy and perhaps it would be better for the both of you to move on in your separate directions and salvage a friendship instead. Link to post Share on other sites
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