badian Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Its been a year since my ex and I broke up. I had to leave her country and go back to my own. So, she keeps in contact and we are both with other people. I have no issues as long as we don't talk about the people we are with and what we do with those people. Thank God we are in other countries. So, I think its weird that she sends me pics of herself. And I don't ask for them and I haven't sent any pics. Well, I finally told her that I don't get anything from our conversations. That didn't go over too well with her. Her reply was "That's really selfish, what about me?" And I said "What about you?" And I'm thinking....we're not together anymore. I think the only reason to call an ex is that you're still interested in them. Is that accurate in this case? She says she wants to stay in contact and I'm thinking for what? She told me that we won't get back together...so to me that was the end of the conversation. Please advise....is this a European thing? Badian
frd150 Posted August 10, 2007 Posted August 10, 2007 Its been a year since my ex and I broke up. I had to leave her country and go back to my own. So, she keeps in contact and we are both with other people. I have no issues as long as we don't talk about the people we are with and what we do with those people. Thank God we are in other countries. So, I think its weird that she sends me pics of herself. And I don't ask for them and I haven't sent any pics. Well, I finally told her that I don't get anything from our conversations. That didn't go over too well with her. Her reply was "That's really selfish, what about me?" And I said "What about you?" And I'm thinking....we're not together anymore. I think the only reason to call an ex is that you're still interested in them. Is that accurate in this case? She says she wants to stay in contact and I'm thinking for what? She told me that we won't get back together...so to me that was the end of the conversation. Please advise....is this a European thing? Badian If she is still with someone else, in a different country and still contacting you then IMO she is still interested. Especially with how she reacted. Nope, This is a world wide thing;)
DH27 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 Take my advice because I've been with a girl and ended it, and now regret it. Truely think about this and if what you want is distance between you two. If for any reason at all, you would want to stay in contact or get back with this person...don't end it, don't create space, and don't be selfish. I did all this and regret it so much. Just give a little and think of her as well.
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