trevorvw Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Hi all...first time poster...long time lurker..lol anyways, on to my problem. me and my gf are 21, and we've been together for about a year and a half. our relationship is great...except when it comes to things in the bedroom. My gf always gives me the vibe that she doesn't want to have sex (or anything sexual for that matter) like the other day, we were sitting on the couch, and i leaned over to kiss her, and she says "ugh..i'm tired" ouch... so i confronted her about this, and she says she didn't even know i was trying to kiss her how can you not know, when i'm leaning over towards her. I do love her, and she does love me. I mean, it just gets really frustrating sometimes, and i don't know what to do about it. The last time i tried bringing this up (the sex...or lack thereof) she blew a gasket, and yelled at me for the entire evening. So i don't know what to do, and any help would be appreciated. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 My first question is, is she enjoying herself sexually? Does she orgasm when you guys have sex?? Link to post Share on other sites
nellstar Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Did she has issues about it in the past? Link to post Share on other sites
Author trevorvw Posted August 10, 2007 Author Share Posted August 10, 2007 My first question is, is she enjoying herself sexually? Does she orgasm when you guys have sex?? absolutely...she orgasm's every single time Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Does she feel romanced, valued, and loved? Also how does she respond when you get aggressive? Link to post Share on other sites
Author trevorvw Posted August 10, 2007 Author Share Posted August 10, 2007 Nell, No, no problems before. Everything was great, up until about may of this year.. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 The last time i tried bringing this up (the sex...or lack thereof) she blew a gasket, and yelled at me for the entire evening. So i don't know what to do, and any help would be appreciated. Thanks! Ignoring the fact that she was yelling, what did she use the entire evening to say? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
VIP Posted August 12, 2007 Share Posted August 12, 2007 She might have lost interest in you or met someone else. You shouldn't put up with this , neither should you put up with the yelling. Link to post Share on other sites
nellstar Posted August 12, 2007 Share Posted August 12, 2007 She might have lost interest in you or met someone else. You shouldn't put up with this , neither should you put up with the yelling. Yup, I kinda agree with VIP. As for myself, when I am tired - I want to make love even more. Or at least, some kissing and cuddling... which would eventually turn into love-making session. If I am no longer interested in my man, I wouldn't want to exchange body fluid with him. Harsh as it sounds, that is reality. And no, I wouldn't exactly yell.. what's up with that?! Your gf could be different but most likely, she has lost interest or her libido has gone down. I hope not... Link to post Share on other sites
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