Am i a player a baller a caller or just the bitch i claim to be

[Grim]

am i a player a baller a caller or just the 40 yearold bitch i claim to be

 

ok story so far

 

got dumped by a 26 yearold player (lol) me thinks not

 

seeing an 18 yearold hunk of candy

 

36 yearold normal guy wants to take me to paris and other places (said he would chew of his left leg to be with me)

 

39 yearold biker wants to show me the time of my life. (he needs glasses but is too vain to wear them)

 

me i like playing with all four they have different things to offer.

 

delema. what to do

[dbtmarley]

Well aren't you the busy bee...

 

 

By the looks of things you got everything covered, except one.

 

You need a 55+ sugar daddy..

[Grim]

Well aren't you the busy bee...

 

 

By the looks of things you got everything covered, except one.

 

You need a 55+ sugar daddy..

 

just can bring myself to go older. i like my men born in the 1980's the 2 older guys are nice people thats the only reason they are in the running

[nellstar]

Go for the 36 year old guy. He's normal.. yet able to take you around the world. Then again, what is 'normal' nowadays??

[Yamaha]

am i a player a baller a caller or just the 40 year old bitch i claim to be

 

OK story so far

 

got dumped by a 26 year old player (lol) me thinks not

 

seeing an 18 year old hunk of candy

 

36 year old normal guy wants to take me to Paris and other places (said he would chew of his left leg to be with me)

 

39 year old biker wants to show me the time of my life. (he needs glasses but is too vain to wear them)

 

me i like playing with all four they have different things to offer.

 

dilemma. what to do

 

How young will you go?

 

How about a 14 y old? Is he fair game if he makes a move on you?

 

The 2 older guys must not be real men if they are putting up with such an immature women. I think you should just make love to yourself as that is the person you are crazy about.

[Grim]

How young will you go?

 

How about a 14 y old? Is he fair game if he makes a move on you?

 

The 2 older guys must not be real men if they are putting up with such an immature women. I think you should just make love to yourself as that is the person you are crazy about.

 

fair point. life **** on me and i guess i just want my own back

[This_Too_Shall_Pass]

am i a player a baller a caller or just the 40 yearold bitch i claim to be

 

The first two, yes, definitely. The last two, no comment.

 

got dumped by a 26 yearold player (lol) me thinks not

 

Okay, so that one's out of the question.

 

seeing an 18 yearold hunk of candy

 

You just posted in the other thread that you're done with that one.

 

36 yearold normal guy wants to take me to paris and other places (said he would chew of his left leg to be with me)

 

A guy with cannibalistic tendencies is NOT normal.

 

39 yearold biker wants to show me the time of my life. (he needs glasses but is too vain to wear them)

 

I'd have given him the most points, but I have a feeling he might change his mind once he puts on those glasses.

 

delema. what to do

 

I don't think you have much of a choice there to create a dilemma in the first place.

 

Which is OK...there'll be someone new tomorrow, don't you think?

[Hurt & Alone]

Sounds like I should think about moving to the UK or Canada with Lizzie because here I am finding nothing.

[Grim]

ok the 18 yearold thing dead in the water. not going there.

 

the 26 yearold stood on my heart last night but he doesnt no it he thinks i stood on his.

 

the 36 yearold is a nice guy but his life is more complicated than mine

 

the 39 yearold well thats a none starter he just sortta annoys me. to much pda.

 

and as for me. hurting more than i care to admit, and fighting back the only way i know how. but truthfully i feel like ****, and yes i did want my ego stroked but it isnt helping. i think only time will. i need to learn to cope in other ways.

[whichwayisup]

fair point. life **** on me and i guess i just want my own back

 

Grim, I think you need to deal with whatever it is (was) that happened to you in the past. Whether you had an abusive father, an abusive boyfriend when you were younger...Something went wrong and now you feel the need to prove a point in life. Problem is, even if you prove that point - Whatever it is - I don't think you'll be happy...

 

People here will listen and help you, if you want to open up and share. But, if you can't do that here, then consider talking to a therapist.

[Yamaha]

ok the 18 year old thing dead in the water. not going there.

 

the 26 year old stood on my heart last night but he doesn't no it he thinks i stood on his.

 

the 36 year old is a nice guy but his life is more complicated than mine

 

the 39 year old well thats a none starter he just sorta annoys me. to much pda.

 

and as for me. hurting more than i care to admit, and fighting back the only way i know how. but truthfully i feel like ****, and yes i did want my ego stroked but it isn't helping. i think only time will. i need to learn to cope in other ways.

 

Thanks for being truthful. We all need our ego stroked at times but there are more constructive ways to feel good about one's self. I don't think you are a bad person but you need to deal with the hurt so you can become a whole person. Learn to love yourself so you can love others ( and not just sexual love ).

[squeak]

I think Which way is up hit the nail on the head, these guys are not the solution, maybe they are adding to the problem even more.

 

I know you say you are having fun, but if I may observe-you are running from your own issues. You want to feel whole and happy, please, for your sake, do it the right way-

 

like Yamaha said-by treating yourself well: meaning stop this crazy making. You are just diverting yourself, you're smart, you know that already.

 

Can you find a therapist to talk to about this stuff? Get to how to get your own back through yourself...not through others who are sucking you dry. I don't want to see you crash and burn, Grim.

[whichwayisup]

Grim, I think you need to deal with whatever it is (was) that happened to you in the past. Whether you had an abusive father, an abusive boyfriend when you were younger...Something went wrong and now you feel the need to prove a point in life. Problem is, even if you prove that point - Whatever it is - I don't think you'll be happy...

 

People here will listen and help you, if you want to open up and share. But, if you can't do that here, then consider talking to a therapist.

 

I hope whatever it is that is going on inside you, you fix. At age 40, going around doing what you're doing is only going to mess YOU up, let alone do damage to others...

[Grim]

I hope whatever it is that is going on inside you, you fix. At age 40, going around doing what you're doing is only going to mess YOU up, let alone do damage to others...

 

i know but believe it or not the threads in here are helping. even bish.

 

i am making a few changes. slowly but surely