Touche Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 No I wasn't. Right. So, you're saying that his advice really is the best? Oh, ok. That explains why you don't have a woman then. Oh puhleeze..we all know you're just pulling his chain. Wog, he's messin' with you. Trust me on this one. So Wog, you really think you're helping men out, huh? Do you think your wife sees you as emotionally healthy? Just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 14, 2007 Author Share Posted August 14, 2007 Yes I see myself as emotionally healthy. How can anybody read that link I posted and not come to the same conclusions I come to? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Well how is anyone meant to know what you mean when you are so random? I still have a crush on you You must be very emotionally unhealthy. Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 A good man is much better off finding a woman who already has her issues sorted and is looking for a healthy relationship. Well Woggle, the women will bash you, but that's not uncommon. I, for one, support you in talking about female traits that are indeed very common. The women just like to gang up on people when they hear something that they don't like or are sensitive about. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 For the life of me, how can anyone look at one random website that isn't governmental, educational or scientific and is subject specific and say, hey, that covers the attitudes of an entire gender? Baffles me. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 You must be very emotionally unhealthy. I'm only 19. I read on here the other day no-one has emotional issues until they are 20 so apparently I have 1 month and 12 days to not have issues so I shall retain my crush on b4r until then Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Well Woggle, the women will bash you, but that's not uncommon. I, for one, support you in talking about female traits that are indeed very common. The women just like to gang up on people when they hear something that they don't like or are sensitive about. He only puts his ideas out there to get a rise out of us, so we're only giving him what he wants. I could go and start a thread about classic male traits which are common, but I won't because it's pointless and really who gives a crap? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 I'm only 19. I read on here the other day no-one has emotional issues until they are 20 so apparently I have 1 month and 12 days to not have issues so I shall retain my crush on b4r until then Ok, you get a free pass for now then. And TBF had a great point. I mean really...it's ridiculous. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Right. So, you're saying that his advice really is the best? Oh, ok. That explains why you don't have a woman then. I didnt until post 31 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 14, 2007 Author Share Posted August 14, 2007 He only puts his ideas out there to get a rise out of us, so we're only giving him what he wants. I could go and start a thread about classic male traits which are common, but I won't because it's pointless and really who gives a crap? I don't post it to ghet a rise out of anybody. I think about my views and they make perfect sense to me I don't see why so many are offended. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 All men, if they get married or are married, beat their wives. This is always done in secret and it's because these men have issues with their manhood, usually the eeny, weenie, peenie syndrome and self-esteem issues arising from being beaten by their fathers', when they were growing up. This is my opinion so it's true. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 All men, if they get married or are married, beat their wives. This is always done in secret and it's because these men have issues with their manhood, usually the eeny, weenie, peenie syndrome and self-esteem issues arising from being beaten by their fathers', when they were growing up. This is my opinion so it's true. Mega Burn Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 All men, if they get married or are married, beat their wives. This is always done in secret and it's because these men have issues with their manhood, usually the eeny, weenie, peenie syndrome and self-esteem issues arising from being beaten by their fathers', when they were growing up. This is my opinion so it's true. Based on my ex-wife's skewed perception of reality, I was physical with her. Given this, you must be right... even when it's not true all women will give some crap sob story claiming it to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Mega Burn Who me? No, of course I'm just stating fact. Based on my ex-wife's skewed perception of reality, I was physical with her. Given this, you must be right... even when it's not true all women will give some crap sob story claiming it to be. Was her name Mrs. Woggle? No doubt there's always generalizations but there's a limit to how far you can take it and take it for truth. In the OPs case, it's taken to the extreme that all of life's problems are due to women and it's proven by going to one dingbat website on the intardweb... Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Men come here for advice and I give them the best possible advice they can get. I truly believe you give the best advice you can from your perspective but it's one filled with bitterness, distrust and paranoia. I could have been you, given what I was married to for 25 years and ultimately divorced. However, I chose/choose to look at each individual as just that, their own person upon whom the actions of others have no bearing whatsoever. If I'd followed your "advice" I would never have asked out my wife and if she'd followed suit, she'd never have accepted. We'd have lost much because in becoming a couple we've gained much. I always jokingly say that my first rule of relationships is to never enter into one with someone who brings along more baggage than will fit in the overhead compartment. Thankfully I broke my own rule, as did my wife. Our lives have been much enriched since! Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Hopefully it leaves you discerning, but open to possibilities. There really are good people out there of both genders. It just might take awhile to fine the one who's right for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Yes I see myself as emotionally healthy. How can anybody read that link I posted and not come to the same conclusions I come to? ...vulnerable and easily led! Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 All men, if they get married or are married, beat their wives. This is always done in secret and it's because these men have issues with their manhood, usually the eeny, weenie, peenie syndrome and self-esteem issues arising from being beaten by their fathers', when they were growing up. This is my opinion so it's true. You promised not to tell! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 I sincerely believe that woggle has emotional issues that he has yet to work out. We all do. Find me someone whose completely emotionally healthy and I'll swallow my shoe. So, I belive that woggle is the pot calling the kettle black. He has issues, women have issues. Men have issues. EVERYONE has issues. Haven't you been in therapy? What does your therapist have to say about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 I completely agree with BO. Also it's worth keeping in mind that some people just bring out the worst in us. We can be fine with one person and another just knows how to push our buttons. Some people can just draw our darker sides out. Others bring out the best. Just wanted to throw that out there for consideration. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Also I wanted to add something else. Wog, didn't you say that you hide this certain side of yourself from your wife? She has no idea about your skewed views on women. So who is to say that there aren't women out there who hide their baggage? How are men protected from them? What's your advice for them? Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 I'm just enjoying the irony involved in some of the adverts that are currently appearing below Woggle's initial post. "Victimized by him again? Go to howtospotadangerousman.com." Good to see that the sponsors, at least, are on our side. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Hey Woggle, I usually don’t step all over your threads cause after all you’ve been through, I’d be surprised if you weren’t suffering from a bit of post traumatic stress. And I’m hoping while you dump all of your emotional toxic waste here (where it’s safe) that at least you’re still continuing on with your therapy. I understand the part about putting it all “here” so that you don’t unload at home on your wife ... but I have to wonder if the residual of all that still doesn’t follow you around off screen in some way. You know ... go out with the buddies and whine over your beers about your failed and failing relationships, and how psychotic the females in your lives have been. At the end of the night, when you come home, who do you confide in? And who’s left exercising all the damage control and trying to make you feel “safe” again with a woman in spite of the fact that you don’t seem to like or trust them very much in general? If it’s your wife, I have to wonder how long she’s going to be able to maintain for you. I don’t care how strong a person is, it will wear on them eventually. And should your marriage end one day because of it ... I’m worried that it’ll just be another reason you add to your long list of complaints to justify why females can’t be trusted, rather than taking a more realistic look at the part you played in all your failed relationships. You know? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 You promised not to tell! I'm sorry C. I'll try not to mention it again. As if... Link to post Share on other sites
halfarock Posted August 15, 2007 Share Posted August 15, 2007 I think that someone with a lot of emotional baggage and drama would be preferable to someone who was emotionally dead or aloof. Link to post Share on other sites
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