heartoutside Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 I've been reading through some posts on here and I'm starting to wonder if I messed up by going NC with my ex? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t126373/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t124305/ I know I need to focus on myself and she broke up with me, but I'm starting to questions how I handled the whole thing. I waited for her to always make contact, and got mad when she was sending me text message after text message while I was on vacation (which during that vacation also listed her self as single on myspace). Even though she was the one who said out of the blue that she needed time and space and was confused. She was also the one who always made contact, even called 4 days after saying she loved me and missed me and then hung up. The first days, i would leave notes telling her how much she meant to me, and how much I love her. But I never called or sent text messages unless she did first. It seems like everything feel apart since I went on my second vacation. She has been pulling away from everyone not just me, even further. And she is kind of seeing this guy, but has told people that she isn't seeing him, even though he thinks they are. Should I text her, or just let it be.....and move on..? I'll have to see her this weekend at a company meeting, so what should I do...? Should I send her a text after the meeting tellling her it was nice to see her? Or should I just move on? ugh Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Or should I just move on? Just move on. When it's over, it's over. Why spend all that time and energy on beating a dead horse. It's beginning to sound like a game! Link to post Share on other sites
mike7070 Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Just move on....... I'd be civil face to face....but wouldn't respond to any of her messages. Get out and date..... Link to post Share on other sites
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