lagirl81 Posted August 15, 2007 Share Posted August 15, 2007 I am severly depressed about what has happenned in the past few months. My sister doesnt like my live in boyfriend, and it making my life miserable. I live with my boyfriend (35) and I am (26) and we are planning on selling our condo and move into a larger home to get married and begin raising a family. We have a very successful business together, and have one year left until I receive my doctorate, I think we are on the right path in life, and we love and support one another. The only problem involves my sister, who hates him. She thinks I can do so much better, constantly tells me he is a loser, needs to lose weight, fat, ugly, and worthless, all the while she wants me to lend her money and for me to take my family to expensive restraunts. She recently just called our office, and because he didnt ask her how her day is going, she yelled at him and called him. She doesnt like him because he is of another religion, and is against us being together. She makes him feel uncomfortable and recnetly said that she is going to try and make us break up in any way possible. My mom likes him, and my other sister does too, but my middle sister is turning everyone against him. She is 32, not married and is constantly putting down others in relationships, what should I do? It is starting to ruin our relationship and my man doesnt ever want to spend holidays with her. What can I do? He is tired of seeing me cry daily, because she calls me up and calls me names, and because I used to party (dont anymore) she calls me an alcoholic, and behind my back told him and calls me a slut. What can I do? I cant sleep and its hurting my soul. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted August 15, 2007 Share Posted August 15, 2007 You need to talk to some other members of your family to see if they can apply pressure on her! Also, is it possible to limit contact with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 23, 2007 Share Posted August 23, 2007 Tell her to grow up and if she doesn't like it, not to speak to you again until she does. She may be your sister, but she has no right to expect anything from you, nor to think she has the right to tell you who you should and shouldn't be with. If you don't nip this in the bud now, things will only get worse. Link to post Share on other sites
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