Author tinktronik Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 Well, I guess your only alternative is to leave him and come be my woman. You have a steady job right ? Not project work and I would be able to have at least half an hour a day at home by myself right . You've got a deal. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tinktronik Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 Why do you resent taking care of things now if he's willing to take care of you down the road? Remember too T I have three small children and don't need the burden of a grown azz man pulling money from my wallet to get himself a soda or whatever . I have never depended on my s/o to help pay for my children ,I am 27 years old and the full bill scale 3 kids 3 cats a dog and a man who decided that even though he is out of money he's not gonna work because he has XXX amount of money due to him in NOV. Is Bullsh** . Im pissed off about it im not 40 or 45 Im 27 with much more than most people my age could handle , the last thing I need is more .How much can you expect of someone at one time? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 16, 2007 Share Posted September 16, 2007 Wow, Tink. You sound so easy to please. Is that all you ask for? Anyway, you don't sound very compatible to me. I don't really know what else to say. Sorry, you're being driven nuts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tinktronik Posted September 16, 2007 Author Share Posted September 16, 2007 Wow, Tink. You sound so easy to please. Is that all you ask for? Anyway, you don't sound very compatible to me. I don't really know what else to say. Sorry, you're being driven nuts. I am easy to please. I don't expect very much just to be able to do my own job , juggle my kids , have a peacefull existence at home away from the running around that is work . We have had great times when we are both working doing well , the bills are paid , the kids are happy , my s/o's not drinking . I would say we have had our rutts, like when his daughter lived here . I would say that our biggest problems come from the fact that he comes from a moneyed family and I do not , so he expects the money to just be there and flow even though he picked a career where the money only flows extinsivley at times .He expects that just because he garners XXX dollars in june that even though he spends it there will be more and JULY and if there is not any more till SEPT , it falls to me . This is just a really stressfull time I think . He did quit drinking , thanks for that . But weve been hunting for biz locations and getting ready to move , the kids are here full time (and I mean full time , no Grandma or grandpa to help out ; Im working fulltime plus some and dropping picking up kids , doing their extra cirruculars . Im trying to get this damn puppy house trained and he keeps peeing on the carpet .ARRRGGG Perhaps our compatibility is nill at this point . But what the hell do I do with him now? Link to post Share on other sites
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