yergawd Posted August 16, 2007 Share Posted August 16, 2007 Things going great with GF talking about possible marraige in the distant future. The issue is her kids. I like them, but feel like they constantly compare me to her ex husband. I am sick and tired of hearing their stories of "fun daddy 'bob'". Whenever it comes up I want to just blurt out, "Yeah, fun daddy 'Bob' you mean the one that used to get off on slamming car doors on you mom or breaking furniture with her, yeah h3ll of a guy" I know it's not their fault they remember him as the guy that would do wild crazy fun things with them (because he was bi polar and would do fun things when he was up). The younger one actually is better than the older one. He loves to antagonize people because of his ODD. She has told both of them she does not like them bringing him up the younger respects that the older it was like gas to the fire he had another button to push. They don't know of the abuse, she tried hard to keep it that way but it makes me feel like crap hearing them talk about him. Link to post Share on other sites
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