AngryHeartache Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 I am happy. I talked to my friend/guy I'm in lust with tonight. Finally asked how he feels about me. He said he know there's something there, but he needs time. He says he's a very wary person, which I knew he was. We were holding hands and everything, and lots of eye contacte, smiles, sexual comments/jokes, etc. I know he likes me, but he needs to learn he can trust me. I've only known, and been his friend, for a couple of months now. About 2 I'd say. He takes a long while to trust people. Anyway, that's all fair enough. But the next thing is tricky....our friend likes me in a romantic way. I know this, he knows this. He told me he's afraid to hurt him. I'll tell you this now...our friend has learning difficulties okay. Very, very nice, sweet, charming man. But he lives in a world of his own...literally! I think he may even think we are together. And this worries me and my lust interest. Neither of us wants to hurt him - but I like this guy so much that I'm afraid I'; willing to do that. "A" on the other hand is less willing to do so. I have told this friend time and time again, in a very gentle way that we are just friends. That I like A and nothing can go on with us. But its no use, because not being funny - he does not understand. He is "backward" How am I gonna solve this one?? I don't want to hurt him, but I also don't need him holding A back. Because he's just my friend, and has no rights over me - he thinks he does Link to post Share on other sites
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