What do you think

[Justin]

I have meet this girl that I have been friends with 3 years now. When I met her she was engaged to her boyfriend. She would call me everyday and tell me about her problems with her relationship. She would move out on him and move in with me for maybe one day maybe a week. She would sneek out of the house after he would fall asleep and meet me. She would tell me we are really close and hug and kiss me. NO SEX. Well she gave up on the relationship and moved in with me. She has her own apartment here, but spends most of the time with me. She is planing on doing lots of things this summer. But it was only two days then she meet an old boyfriend at a bar with her friend. She called me and asked if it would be ok if he drove her home to my house. Now she

 

takes a nap after supper and makes plans with him and dont come home until the next morning, she said they are not having sex. She knows that I love her, and I have told her she is hurting me. My problem is that she is starting to drink more and more. And when she leaves she has this look in her eyes that seems like she is mad at herself for what she is doing.

[Joe]

Take command of the situation. Take on the situation at both fronts. Tell her how you feel and that you don't want her seeing this guy anymore. At the same time, I would talk with this guy and tell him how you feel about her. Then threaten him with physical harm if he doesn't head your words. As far as her excessive drinking goes, try to reduce the amount of salt in her diet if you can.

I have meet this girl that I have been friends with 3 years now. When I met her she was engaged to her boyfriend. She would call me everyday and tell me about her problems with her relationship. She would move out on him and move in with me for maybe one day maybe a week. She would sneek out of the house after he would fall asleep and meet me. She would tell me we are really close and hug and kiss me. NO SEX. Well she gave up on the relationship and moved in with me. She has her own apartment here, but spends most of the time with me. She is planing on doing lots of things this summer. But it was only two days then she meet an old boyfriend at a bar with her friend. She called me and asked if it would be ok if he drove her home to my house. Now she takes a nap after supper and makes plans with him and dont come home until the next morning, she said they are not having sex. She knows that I love her, and I have told her she is hurting me. My problem is that she is starting to drink more and more. And when she leaves she has this look in her eyes that seems like she is mad at herself for what she is doing.