lovernotafighter Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 This Thread gets better all the time I peek in here.....lol Good comic relief that is for sure! :lmao::lmao: LNF, you crack me up! You are a rare breed! Love ya girl!:bunny::bunny: <3 love you too!! <3 so glad you have come back to LS the place wasn't the same with out you wonderful woman!! Link to post Share on other sites
RealityCheck Posted September 2, 2007 Share Posted September 2, 2007 <3 love you too!! <3 so glad you have come back to LS the place wasn't the same with out you wonderful woman!! Ditto!!!! :love::love::love::love: Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 But alot of women/men here DO know they are getting involved with someone elses spouse and don't care as long as they get what they want. [\quote] So, so true. I note that no one bothered to respond to this one. Hmmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted September 4, 2007 Share Posted September 4, 2007 Yes! Our Canadian schools have taught us how to use our words well that would not even require using any punctuation at all to get our point across:D Listen to you:D Now you are knocking a Country:D Go write a letter to yourself. She needs to know you care about her very much:D :lmao: RC - you never fail to crack me up!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 Really? Either you have chosen to leave alot out or you have no clue of what an A is. The story you just told is just about a W hitting on your H and him declining her. That's not an A. Wow, it isn't? You mean our Marriage counselor was WRONG????? Link to post Share on other sites
foreverchanged Posted October 7, 2007 Share Posted October 7, 2007 THAT'S what it boils down to, BSs regretful of their poor choices to try to improve something that has no cure. One day when you wake up and realise you cannot fix something that has no solution only then will your anger subside and will you be able to enjoy your life again. Until then we can pretty much expect to see all your fantasies spewed out here in the form or "idealisms" on what MM think and want and why they act the way they do and why OW are what they are. In the leas it's good for laugh. TC- You are probably closer to the truth then you realize, and this is coming from a BS. Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 thanks very much lindya. Just looking at this, I'm realizing I need to get my $#!+ together regarding this guy. It started out so great and now it's not. I think you're looking at your situation how you should. Now, what are ya going to do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 look, bish, I don't know what your story is, and it must have been a humdinger. But I don't think you are advancing the ball for fidelity by coming on a message board that's 90 percent women, many of whom are in tough situations, some of whom are birds with broken wings, and telling them that's what they get for falling for a playa. Some women don't even find out the guy is married until they are in too deep. Why don't you go on some playa message boards and tell those guys who are married to keep it in their pants? I'm sorry, but once the OW finds out he's M, there is no such thing as "too deep". There is no nothing. He's M and she should kick him to the curb. If he didn't tell her that one little important thing, then he's a cake eater and not worth the time. He never was. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 THAT'S what it boils down to, BSs regretful of their poor choices to try to improve something that has no cure. One day when you wake up and realise you cannot fix something that has no solution only then will your anger subside and will you be able to enjoy your life again. Until then we can pretty much expect to see all your fantasies spewed out here in the form or "idealisms" on what MM think and want and why they act the way they do and why OW are what they are. In the leas it's good for laugh. TC- You are probably closer to the truth then you realize, and this is coming from a BS. Well Forever you see what I am talking about from a BS prepective and that is pretty interesting to me. I am not sure how close I am to the truth but I know that a stubborn need to clutch on to anger stems from somewhere, and hanging on to anger is like hanging on to the past and refusing to move on it is a way to allow our emotions to stay in the past. We tend to live from past emotions and future ones, we forget to live the moment. When someone displays constant outbursts of anger they are living off of past emotions, they can say they have moved on all they want but their actions say otherwise. If there is one thing that being involved with a married person has only fortified for me is that when we focus on people's actions VS their words, the truth is known. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 I'm sorry, but once the OW finds out he's M, there is no such thing as "too deep". There is no nothing. He's M and she should kick him to the curb. If he didn't tell her that one little important thing, then he's a cake eater and not worth the time. He never was. That's your opinion and you are entitled to it but the reality is that life doesn't work in absolutes, there is a whole lot of grey out there, even if some can't see it. Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 That's your opinion and you are entitled to it but the reality is that life doesn't work in absolutes, there is a whole lot of grey out there, even if some can't see it. Yeah, if life were perfect, then OWs wouldn't sleep with MMs and vise versa... Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 Yeah, if life were perfect, then OWs wouldn't sleep with MMs and vise versa... No one said anything about life being perfect, if life were perfect discussions wouldn't exist and we would not question anything. There would be nothing to ponder. Grey is what makes the world go round actually. I wouldn't want a perfect world anyway, we def would not be having this discussion on a computer via the internet if perfection were the only way, there would be no incentive for progress. Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 No one said anything about life being perfect, if life were perfect discussions wouldn't exist and we would not question anything. There would be nothing to ponder. Grey is what makes the world go round actually. I wouldn't want a perfect world anyway, we def would not be having this discussion on a computer via the internet if perfection were the only way, there would be no incentive for progress. Personally, I would rather live in a world where there's nothing painful like cheating spouses/SOs, etc. I could handle that kinda mundane. Not having a board like LS would be a worthy sacrafice for that kind of happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 Personally, I would rather live in a world where there's nothing painful like cheating spouses/SOs, etc. I could handle that kinda mundane. Not having a board like LS would be a worthy sacrafice for that kind of happiness. I agree and you we don't have to embrace it but we do have to accept that it is a harsh reality. Acceptance is half the battle. I think this forum just acknowledges it is a very big part of our current social state, 50 yrs ago there was probably no public forum for "wrong-doers" to congregate, does this mean people did less wrong.? Nahh. not at all. It was just not talked about. Sign of the times that's all. Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 I agree and you we don't have to embrace it but we do have to accept that it is a harsh reality. Acceptance is half the battle. I think this forum just acknowledges it is a very big part of our current social state, 50 yrs ago there was probably no public forum for "wrong-doers" to congregate, does this mean people did less wrong.? Nahh. not at all. It was just not talked about. Sign of the times that's all. Well, there was Dear Abby, some years back.... Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 Well, there was Dear Abby, some years back.... :lmao::lmao: Ahhahaha that's true! I always thought it was like Penthouse letters, made up. Link to post Share on other sites
Havn_a_life Posted October 9, 2007 Share Posted October 9, 2007 :lmao::lmao: Ahhahaha that's true! I always thought it was like Penthouse letters, made up. Oh, the good ole days! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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