RonaldAA Posted August 21, 2007 Share Posted August 21, 2007 Well I hope everybody is fine...Let me tell you my story, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and it has been incredible, so much that there's no words that describe's it. (She really has my heart). Yesterday, she told me that she has the great opportunity of studying at a Accademy for 2 years in an other country, i really didnt know what to tell her ...(I just telled her, Hey great!Am glad for you) But she told me also: am leaving in two weeks... My face was surprised(kind of happy) but my heart was breaking apart!!!! Last night i didnt sleep, all night i had nightmare's about her leaving and I woke up at 3am, i couldnt sleep no more. I know i have to support her and tell her: Awesome baby, its incredible!...But The pain is 2 much!!!! :'( I just dont know what to do!!, some friends tell me you better break up with her, it just wont work, others tell me stay next to her always. I dont want her to leave but i cant be in her way!!! Its her future...... She told me if you break up with me i wont leave. i need help, am very happy for her but my heart is breaking, she is my world, she is my everything, but i know i have to let her go Link to post Share on other sites
catrocks Posted August 22, 2007 Share Posted August 22, 2007 Just a couple of questions: how old are the both of you? And how far away is this other country which she will be moving to? Would you not see each other for the whole 2 years or would the two of you be able to visit each other? Basically, I think you know that you have to let her go if it is such an amazing opportunity. If she stays and misses out then it's likely she'll feel resentful that she couldn't go and you wouldn't try to make it work with her. Long distance isn't for everyone, but I think you need to give it a go before you decide either way whether or not you can do it. It's very difficult and it hurts a lot, but if you love her and she loves you that much, and you know that you can be reunited in 2 years, then the distance will have been worth it, and will probably make you appreciate each other more. But, you never know unless you try Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 22, 2007 Share Posted August 22, 2007 Well I hope everybody is fine... I am. Thanks for asking. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RonaldAA Posted August 22, 2007 Author Share Posted August 22, 2007 Just a couple of questions: how old are the both of you? And how far away is this other country which she will be moving to? Would you not see each other for the whole 2 years or would the two of you be able to visit each other? Basically, I think you know that you have to let her go if it is such an amazing opportunity. If she stays and misses out then it's likely she'll feel resentful that she couldn't go and you wouldn't try to make it work with her. Long distance isn't for everyone, but I think you need to give it a go before you decide either way whether or not you can do it. It's very difficult and it hurts a lot, but if you love her and she loves you that much, and you know that you can be reunited in 2 years, then the distance will have been worth it, and will probably make you appreciate each other more. But, you never know unless you try Thanks for writing, am so sad i cant describe you... Am 21 and she is 17 (I know she is incredibly young and she has a whole life in front of her...) We live in Costa Rica and she's going to Florida, Tampa... she is telling me to try and keep up with this so incredible relation, but I know that when she ends with her studies in Tampa she is going to stay there in college. So i dont know whats best for both of us!!!??? She also told if you break up with me i wont go!! So i dont know what to do, am breaking in pieces Link to post Share on other sites
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