blueberry Posted August 22, 2007 Share Posted August 22, 2007 Hi there, I've come here as I am in a bit of a muddle! When I was about 15 (I'm now 30), I dated a guy. It was your typical teenage relationship in which we slept together - the first time for us both. We broke up after a few months but remained very close. There was the odd occassion where we hooked up but nothing major. I left my home country to travel about 6 years ago and have only been back twice since - we always hang out when I am back. We've remained in pretty much constant contact over the years and often talk to each other about our various troubles in relationships, offer support and so on. I live in London now and he's just advised that he is moving here in a few months. I am so excited about this and he will be staying with me until he finds his feet. We are also planning trips away and really looking forward to spending time together again. Thing is, whilst I don't think I am in love with him as such, I feel so much for him and I am not sure if I am confusing it with sexual love or sisterly love. Its always driven me crazy and I know that now he is coming over here its going to drive me crazy again. Any advice? I'm not sure how I could possibly broach the subject with him... or do I just get him drunk and jump his bones?? Do I just remain quiet and see where things lead? Its really hard to gauge someones feelings when you are so close to them - its like not seeing the forest because there are too many trees... Would appreciate any nuggets of wisdom you could offer me. Its all very confusing... peace x Link to post Share on other sites
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