snoopygirl Posted March 30, 2003 Share Posted March 30, 2003 I have been seeing this guy as a friend. Our relationship has grown to something very unspecific. We hold hands and kiss. We go out and he pays. He calls me about 4 times a week. Lately he has had to work more so i haven't seen him in about 3 weeks, but he calls me a lot. Sometimes when talking on the phone he is really sweet and we have great conversations. But other times he acts like he doesn't really want to talk to me. I know he is tired and worn out from work and I am trying to be supportive. Is he interested or not? What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Just A Girl2 Posted March 30, 2003 Share Posted March 30, 2003 Hi there, It's absolutely IMPOSSIBLE for any of us, strangers on the internet, who don't know either of you, especially him, to tell you either way, whether he's interested in you or not. We can only guess or speculate, but what good is that? You want some answers, right? So why don't you ask him out for coffee or lunch or whatever, and just come right out and ask him what's up. Mention to him that you realize he's very busy, but you haven't really seen him in 3 weeks and you're wondering if everything's okay with him, and all that. I myself am one for getting the facts, I hate to be left wondering what's going on or how someone feels about me..I'd rather just come right out and ask them and hear the truth (whether good or bad), than be left in limbo. Only HE knows how HE feels about YOU/whether he considers you to be in a relationship, whether HE wants to continue seeing you, whether HE considers you both an 'item', and WHY he's not been around for the past 3 weeks. Ask him! Link to post Share on other sites
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