mixed signals

[joseph22]

Ok, about three weeks ago, my girlfriend of 2 years breaks up with me because she didnt want to feel down and didn't want a boyfriend in college. She would talk to me sometimes but not very often and i saw her twice since the breakup. We talked on the internet a few times and she said we are not getting back together, and she's almost over me. (She's said we wouldnt be getting back together before on previous breakups over small issues which we did resolve). Now we are moved up to the same college and last night i get a phone call from her while she was drunk just asking me about everything how i was and stuff to that effect. After I get off the phone with her, 10 minutes later she calls me again and says I really don't know why i called you, you were the last one i called so i called you again, which is makin me think, well you could call any of your friends or anything but you called me again. we talked for a while longer then i got off the phone with her. she texted me after that and i told her to be careful that night. Then i get a phone call at 1 in the morning waking me up, so i picked up my phone and texted her back and im like did you need something and shes like no, so we talked a bit more, then i went back to bed. she acted angry when i said i would talk to her tomorrow because i was going back to bed. she apolgized the next morning about it, she said she was acting stupid. she knows i want to be back with her, and ive given her space, and she acts like she wants me around sometimes like she wants a relationship, its just one big mixed signal from her. any ideas on whats going on in her head?

[CaliGuy]

Yep. She's just making sure you're still on a string and available if she needs you.

 

It's best you don't answer every call. Be busy with your life. If she wants to be a part of it she'll make a much greater effort to contact you.

[joseph22]

thanks for the response. she also tells me how much she was drinking and everything, like i could honestly care about that, but seeing as how i dont drink much or party, now we are up here im starting to say ya im going out and doing this too, im gonna go party tonight. start playing mind games with her to get her to think, should i keep that up?

[Trialbyfire]

Take drunk dialling and text messaging with a grain of salt. It's only going to mess with your head if you take it seriously. If she contacts you sober, it's a whole different story.

[joseph22]

ya thats true, but i also think the truth tends to come out more a bit when your drunk than sober. she acted upset with me when i told her just leave me a voicemail or text but i was going back to bed.